Do prostitutes who marry their client, let their husband/former client bang other prostitutes?

[richardp2918]

I've always been fascinated about the dynamic of clients and hos, both of whom are banging tons of people and also know the other is banging tons of people. I know quite a few who have gotten married and always wondered...can the guys ever bang other hos after marrying his favorite ho?

I love the fantasy that you can marry a girl and once a week or so, you tell her, "I'm coming home late, I have to bang xyz at MG...I think you know her, don't you?". "Oh sure honey, she's a sweet girl. I once did a bachelor party gang bang with her once, she's a sweet girl. I understand if you have to BBFS her, but please don't come in her pussy. Have a good day at work!" If not this, at least maybe turn a blind eye, knowing her husband has a decades long habit of banging whores?

I'm gonna guess no for the most part, but there's gotta be some exceptions. Am I crazy to think this is possible?

 

[Redrain]

Of course they don't!

It would be like losing a customer and being cheated on at the same time!

 

[Enkidu_10]

It would depend on the girl. But in my limited & non marriage experience, they draw a line for what is work vs what is fun.

Instead they will be telling you about how xyz blows up the spa toilet regularly, is on antibiotics for an infection and is known to do drugs with customers

 

[BigUp]

The few times this has come up in convo, the answer has been "hell no".

My response: "better not marry a client then."

It's odd to think they are OK with most of their clients being married but would be upset if tables were turned.

 

[SincerelyWF]

I used to date an escort and she would regularly have her friends service me when she was working out of town.

 

[PhillyJimi]

It depends. Think of it this way. If she was a popular working gal and still wants to live in the place where she worked, there will always be that fear that she is going to run into someone who was a customer. If you're her BF (or even husband) and some dude comes up and say "Hi, Cherry how are you? And she does her best to act normal but underneath, you can tell she is freaked out," Especially if the guy is clueless and keeps insisting he knows her.

She might be able to explain it away once but if it happened twice, even the most dense guy is going to be asking her who is Cherry? Why are these guys calling you Cherry? The fear is that you'll leave her, because you found out about her past. That is a real worry for her.

Now what is better? She knows that you know she was Cherry. She is out of the business and no longer works. So she doesn't live with that fear of you finding out who she was. Living a life not walking on egg shells and freaking out about it all the time. Now if you're a guy, you better be very sure you can handle her past. DO NOT throw it in her face when you're mad at her and get into an argument.

It will forever change your relationship. A single slip of "well you're a ho and fucked hundreds of guys and you're luck I am with you." That is the nuke option never to be used.

 

[dirkjones]

do husbands that marry non prostitutes get to bang other women? sometimes. Why would this scenario be any different? they're people, sometimes people don't agree with monogamy.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

So I've never been married, but I did "date" a provider who then went on to become an owner.
This was from 2006 to 2009.
She knew I saw other girls and it annoyed her.
She said she would be OK with it if I only saw the girls that worked at her place.
Which I thought was weird and never did it, because she was always there.

And yes, the expectation would be that I would pay the full $200.
Which I would have done anyway had I chose to do that. I am not one to ask for discounts.
But I did not do it because I thought it was weird.

 

[이 회장님]

I’ll never get married but I love going to weddings because the food and desserts are so damn good. lol

 

[Enkidu_10]

I’ll never get married but I love going to weddings because the food and desserts are so damn good. lol

The drinks & the bride's maids tho

 

[Enkidu_10]

and the brides mom

 

[BIGBOB62]

I was in a serious relationship with a provider for 3 years. Our arrangement was that when we started dating she left the FS spa she was working at, and went to a mostly legit spa. I stopped going to FS spas and only did any spa activity when I was traveling for more than a week, HJ and BJ only, and with her explicit permission. Her attitude was that it was better to talk about than to sneak around. She knew I had strong desire, and refuse to masturbate. She’d often send me to friends of hers in other cities also, and call ahead.

 

[mikemendez]

Why marry a prostitute if the guy is gonna keep banging prostitutes. Lots of married women were hoes before they got married, now they’re just married hoes.

 

[Enkidu_10]

Why marry a prostitute if the guy is gonna keep banging prostitutes. Lots of married women were hoes before they got married, now they’re just married hoes.

Why marry anyone? its the worst contract ever unless its in your favor

 

[이 회장님]

Why marry a prostitute if the guy is gonna keep banging prostitutes. Lots of married women were hoes before they got married, now they’re just married hoes.

I don’t understand this either.

 

[Enkidu_10]

I don’t understand this either.

When mongers are proposing to these girls, do you think we are sending our best?

Many essentially random customers propose to these girls... it's a transaction about money, immigration status and sex. Sometimes people lie to themselves into thinking it's about love and romance.

 

[이 회장님]

When mongers are proposing to these girls, do you think we are sending our best?

Many essentially random customers propose to these girls... it's a transaction about money, immigration status and sex. Sometimes people lie to themselves into thinking it's about love and romance.

I’ve seen a variety of men get married. The older men (50s and above) are financially stable, take the amp lady off the market, marry her and they live happily ever after.

I’ve also seen some men divorce their wives and marry the amp lady.

And I’ve seen some get married (fake marriage) to help the amp lady obtain a green card.

I’ve also seen several amp ladies with a married man and hoping that he will divorce his wife and marry them. I told all of them that that’s very wishful thinking.

I really hope all of them invite me to their wedding because I love the food and desserts. lol

 

[Enkidu_10]

I’ve seen a variety of men get married. The older men (50s and above) are financially stable, take the amp lady off the market, marry her and they live happily ever after.

I’ve also seen some men divorce their wives and marry the amp lady.

And I’ve seen some get married (fake marriage) to help the amp lady obtain a green card.

I’ve also seen several amp ladies with a married man and hoping that he will divorce his wife and marry them. I told all of them that that’s very wishful thinking.

I really hope all of them invite me to their wedding because I love the food and desserts. lol

Happily ever after... lol

And then there are the amp ladies who have been married to someone from the US for years, have a green-card/citizenship and are still working and getting reviews on this board I don't understand those relationships and neither do the other amp ladies lol

 

[이 회장님]

Happily ever after... lol

And then there are the amp ladies who have been married to someone from the US for years, have a green-card/citizenship and are still working and getting reviews on this board I don't understand those relationships and neither do the other amp ladies lol

In this case, it’s either the husband cannot financially support the amp lady so she has to work or it’s a fake marriage so the lady just continues to work.

A lot of the Chinese amp ladies date the married Korean men and hoping that they will divorce their wives and go to them. I told them that Kim Jong Un will give up his dictatorship before these men leave their wives for them. lol

 

[richardp2918]

So I've never been married, but I did "date" a provider who then went on to become an owner.
This was from 2006 to 2009.
She knew I saw other girls and it annoyed her.
She said she would be OK with it if I only saw the girls that worked at her place.
Which I thought was weird and never did it, because she was always there.

And yes, the expectation would be that I would pay the full $200.
Which I would have done anyway had I chose to do that. I am not one to ask for discounts.
But I did not do it because I thought it was weird.

That's such a turn on for me. I've never done this with a girl I was dating, but I've had girls I got very "close" to over the years and was always courting, but I'd go to their shop and they might be manning the phones that night and I'd ask her which one to bang and we'd discuss which would fit my type. I'd remind her she was just my type so who would have the kind of tits and ass she had and she'd help me pick a girl, then she'd ship me off to a room to bang this girl.

She'd also come by and knock and say "time" and I'd yell through the door in Korean that I was working hard to finish up and thanked her, which would get a chuckle of a weird look from the girl I was banging.