Do you all think the girls get overworked?

[johndoe1969]

I do believe some of them are overworked, especially establishments that are open until the wee hours of the morning.

I had an experience awhile back in an amp where my masseuse was great the first time I saw her. Very enthusiastic and playful. Then the second time I saw her a week or two after, she wasn't all there at all. I kid you not, either she's drugged out or just plain tired. I was hitting it DS and next thing I hear, she was snoring. WTF. Her eyes were red and I'm bad at telling if they are drugged out or not but that was the weirdest experience I've had in a awhile. In one hand I felt bad for the girl. On the other hand, I was horny as hell. I just ended up enjoying myself while being respectful to her.

 

[Uniquelyme]

IMHO, they are generally NOT overworked. Especially for the [tax free] money they earn. In most spas, it's rare that a girl has more than six clients per day. That is essentially working six hours a day. They may do chores related to their work (laundry, resetting the room, cleaning up, etc.), but that is fairly light work. The girls I know spent most of the day on leisure activities (talking, watching TV, playing games, etc.). They may also spend up to an hour in the morning making themselves beautiful and, perhaps, showering and touching up between clients.

What does get monotonous is the amount of time they spend inside the spa without a break. Sitting around waiting for the next client is somewhat boring/stressful too. Outside of the city, many spend all day and night in the spa, so they can get kind of stir crazy. Girls from Flushing often get on busses and go all over the Eastern Seaboard & Midwest for work.

If the work were that bad, they would not do it. Almost no spa girl wants to go back to what they were doing before (12 hour shifts in restaurants, nail shops, legit spas, home health care, warehouse, hotel maid, etc.), because the work is usually harder for far less money. They stay because they become addicted the money and [relatively] easy lifestyle. The median income for an American is $50K, before taxes. Almost all these girls make far more than that. And employed Americans are far from underworked.

I gotta go by the city Manhattan many are overworked. But they do that to themselves. The places I go these girls have their own apts and go home every night. In Flushing who knows? In other areas that aren't metropolitan not sure.

However the popular girls in a busy shop absolutely see more than 6 guys in a day. Most girls here start 11am-12pm and don't leave til 10-11pm. They can most certainly see 8+ guys. I'm sure some of them would want to as that's more money for them.

Also let's be clear some of these girls get tired after a few Men. It depends what Men they are seeing. In the beginning when I first started going to these places. I would pound an amp girl out for 15-20mins, that's just the main course.

I've left several girls tired when I'm done. So if you have several guys like me who last long and pound the girl out long and hard. That's gonna be a long day for her. She might enjoy the first few but after a while she's going to get tired and long for the minutemen lol.

 

[Wayne1250]

I usually like going towards the beginning of their day but not when they first wake up. I did have one tell me to come late, the last appointment for the night. Longer visit and she said she could let go more so she could sleep. We cracked open some soju and beers a couple times too. Emo looked the other way when I left way past closing.

 

[cool313]

Here's the life of a busy AMP girl: imagine having to have sex with 6-10 different partners (some attractive, but most average-looking at best) every day, back-to-back with minimal rest, 6 days a week. You would be shooting blanks halfway through day one no question. Your perception of sex might completely change to the point where it would be tough to get aroused, much less reach orgasm in typical sexual situations.

It's not an easy lifestyle for sure. Orgasms and sexual pleasure are mental and hormonal reactions and I'm sure this lifestyle wreaks havoc on their calibration.

 

[bronzeharbor]

I've had better luck going around like 7pm on a weekday.
The gamble is that they might be tired if it happened to be a busy day.
I was told the girls can usually squeeze in a nap during the evening.
I've gotten an extra 10-15 mins a few times.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Here's the life of a busy AMP girl: imagine having to have sex with 6-10 different partners (some attractive, but most average-looking at best) every day, back-to-back with minimal rest, 6 days a week. You would be shooting blanks halfway through day one no question. Your perception of sex might completely change to the point where it would be tough to get aroused, much less reach orgasm in typical sexual situations.

It's not an easy lifestyle for sure. Orgasms and sexual pleasure are mental and hormonal reactions and I'm sure this lifestyle wreaks havoc on their calibration.

Great point. Yes, most probably this work of theirs may be killing their sex life for the next several years.

There are Women I wouldn't want to fuck even if I'm compensated. I can't even imagine some of the guys these girls have to deal with. Women in general are far pickier than Men when having sex. So that goes out the window. I would imagine they block out some to many encounters. Some guys they see are rude, some unattractive, some with bad hygiene habits, some demanding etc.

 

[Uniquelyme]

I do believe some of them are overworked, especially establishments that are open until the wee hours of the morning.

I had an experience awhile back in an amp where my masseuse was great the first time I saw her. Very enthusiastic and playful. Then the second time I saw her a week or two after, she wasn't all there at all. I kid you not, either she's drugged out or just plain tired. I was hitting it DS and next thing I hear, she was snoring. WTF. Her eyes were red and I'm bad at telling if they are drugged out or not but that was the weirdest experience I've had in a awhile. In one hand I felt bad for the girl. On the other hand, I was horny as hell. I just ended up enjoying myself while being respectful to her.

I hope you gave her extra. That's a fetish!!

 

[bronzeharbor]

Great point. Yes, most probably this work of theirs may be killing their sex life for the next several years.

There are Women I wouldn't want to fuck even if I'm compensated. I can't even imagine some of the guys these girls have to deal with. Women in general are far pickier than Men when having sex. So that goes out the window. I would imagine they block out some to many encounters. Some guys they see are rude, some unattractive, some with bad hygiene habits, some demanding etc.

I was told that some girls would ask MMS to cut their session early if they were uncomfortable. Some MMS don't allow it, some might.

 

[Wayne1250]

Asian womem, my experience is mostly with Korean girls, prefer a gentleman that knows how to treat her, over a stud that want to pound away. Age and appearance are not as critical to them.

 

[Uniquelyme]

I was told that some girls would ask MMS to cut their session early if they were uncomfortable. Some MMS don't allow it, some might.

My point is Men think of their job With a Man's brain. A Woman experiences life in general far different. They don't see it as easy work lol. I would suspect virtually none of them do. They look at it like the best they can get here and decide the extra money is worth their livelihood consisting of fucking random strangers some to many that aren't in the best of shape or that attracted to.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Asian womem, my experience is mostly with Korean girls, prefer a gentleman that knows how to treat her, over a stud that want to pound away. Age and appearance are not as critical to them.

What do you expect her to tell you?? That I like fucking younger Men who are in great shape?? Do you know how crazy that would sound??

The majority of their visitors are older and in probably not the greatest shape. Virtually Men and Women both prefer to be visually pleased. Is that all they want? No. Do some or most of them enjoy a well mannered Man? Of course. Personality does go far as well.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Asian womem, my experience is mostly with Korean girls, prefer a gentleman that knows how to treat her, over a stud that want to pound away. Age and appearance are not as critical to them.

Keep telling yourself that, gramps.
These women are near expert actresses.
It's part of their job.

 

[lgarthy]

I think the question has no single answer. Some do quite well. Some are indentured to those who paid their (or their family's way) to the US. As for quality of work-- I bet it mostly sucks ass. Most are probably living in squalid, cramped conditions and make relatively little and have to do sex work. I have known only a couple of masseuse sex workers. One lived in Brooklyn and worked three days a week in another state; and she did very well. She has since retired from the industry. Another lived in a slummy area of Massachusetts and lived in a one-bedroom apartment with 4 other girls. Her spa "fees" and debts from coming to the US ate up almost all her income. She ate and slept most days and nights in the back of the spa. She fell off the grid with me, so I have no idea where she is now. I think most span the areas between.

If anyone thinks about the "human trafficking" aspect of it-- I would reply that that reasoning is mostly BS. Student loans, for example, are just as exploitative (if not moreso) than the debts some of these women incur being brought to the US. Same argument for mortgages and bank loans. Welcome to wage slavery, everyone.

 

[Wayne1250]

What do you expect her to tell you?? That I like fucking younger Men who are in great shape?? Do you know how crazy that would sound??

The majority of their visitors are older and in probably not the greatest shape. Virtually Men and Women both prefer to be visually pleased. Is that all they want? No. Do some or most of them enjoy a well mannered Man? Of course. Personality does go far as well.

Keep telling yourself that, gramps.
These women are near expert actresses.
It's part of their job.

Both of you have no clue, I probably have more outside dates than both of you. To bad neither of you really know what these girls look for.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Both of you have no clue, I probably have more outside dates than both of you. To bad neither of you really know what these girls look for.

That's the great thing about the internet.
You can say anything you like...

 

[Wayne1250]

Especially when it's true.

 

[VJLUTZ]

@Uniquelyme, a couple of things:

1. I think we've all heard the "you make me so tired" comment. Like anything else, sometimes it's probably true. Most times though, I think they just say it to either cut the visit short or get a bigger tip. Though I usually tip the girls better when they seem to enjoy it ('cause then I enjoy it more too. No one likes a whiner).
2. When it comes to FS, my contention has always been that men work harder than women. The onus is on the man to perform and we all know that IS work. In most cases, the woman is largely passive and can just take it. So, I think the encounter probably tires the man out more than the woman.
3. In many cases, some of us have to work afterwards. No matter how tired I might feel, a little food & caffeine usually perk me up again. It probably works for them too. Or, they can take a nap during the day (which many of them do). Wish I had that option.
4. Where I think the service takes its toll is in terms of soreness. But, not having a vagina, its hard for me to judge that. I would think proper lubrication is key though. There are probably other tricks-of-the-trade (pardon the pun) that the pros employ as well.
5. There is also the Yuk factor. On that issue, I would think a lot of these girls become experts in imagining they are somewhere else, or full blown out-of-body experience. After a while, they probably learn how to deal with it or go insane. If it's really that bad, they are free agents; so they can always go back to doing whatever they were doing before.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Especially when it's true.

Okie doke.
Have a good night.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Both of you have no clue, I probably have more outside dates than both of you. To bad neither of you really know what these girls look for.

Nothing in my statement that I said is made to be unreasonable. You can believe what you like. I will believe that people in general are physically attracted to more attractive people than not. That doesn't mean that everything else goes out the window. Of course politeness helps.

As far as who gets more outside dates. If you are speaking of these amp girls. Good luck to you. I don't want dates with them. I just like to see them for pure physical pleasure that's it.

If you are speaking about non pros. I've always done well and if you do better. Good for you.

 

[VJLUTZ]

@AutomaticSlim, @Wayne1250 :
In my experience: Truth is stranger than fiction. Especially when it comes to AMP girls.