Do you have a conscience?

[OlderGuy77]

I asked a sharp 70 year old guy who was married twice to good looking women, why did you run all of the time? He said: “I get tired of striking out the pitcher”

 

[OlderGuy77]

My second and last marriage was a lie. Once she got things the way she wanted them she just closed up shop. She didn’t have to pretend to love me. After I left her and during the protracted (3+ years) divorce negotiations i tapped the phone. She told a girlfriend that she “figured we’d go our separate ways after our child went off to college”. She was simply waiting me out. We had sex about twice a month. She knew I would not put her at risk of an STD so the sex was a random test to keep me in line. She worked part time for walk around money. She had a good deal and wanted to keep it going as long as possible with minimal effort. I argued and debated with her for years. When I would corner her with facts she would cry and promise to change then quickly reset back to her agenda. After we were close to divorce I asked her what those tearful promises were all about since they would leave me in a state of confusion. She said in the most honest moment I ever witnessed from her: “I just told you what you wanted to hear”. Why am I telling you this? Because many women not all do not deserve one second of guilt. Many of you guys are married to women who plan to cash out one day. Many women have fantasies of traveling and having romantic flings after the children are grown. So good luck and start stashing some secret cash

 

[peter anas]

I’m not a therapist or a doctor but sorta seems like talking to one wouldn’t be a horrible idea for you.

thought about it.....my friends have been helping thx for assessment..i agree

 

[Shepdawg]

thought about it.....my friends have been helping thx for assessment..i agree

that’s good you have friends helping you. No prob dude, best of luck.

 

[Barfolomew]

Guilt at first. Not anymore. I still want it with the wife but it's complicated. When I finally do get it (once per 2 months if I'm lucky), I want more, and get shut down which in turn makes me go to the AMP more. I stay for the kids and stupidly hoping she'll change. Either way, "It's cheaper to keep 'er!"
I need a release of stress or I'd pop (in many ways ;o). I'd rather keep the peace. And finally, you only live once. I don't want any regrets. I'm safe and careful and no one will ever know about my hobby and I'm at peace with it.

 

[OlderGuy77]

Guilt at first. Not anymore. I still want it with the wife but it's complicated. When I finally do get it (once per 2 months if I'm lucky), I want more, and get shut down which in turn makes me go to the AMP more. I stay for the kids and stupidly hoping she'll change. Either way, "It's cheaper to keep 'er!"
I need a release of stress or I'd pop (in many ways ;o). I'd rather keep the peace. And finally, you only live once. I don't want any regrets. I'm safe and careful and no one will ever know about my hobby and I'm at peace with it.

Do you know why men die before their wives?

Because

They want to

 

[Porkchop]

Guilt at first. Not anymore. I still want it with the wife but it's complicated. When I finally do get it (once per 2 months if I'm lucky), I want more, and get shut down which in turn makes me go to the AMP more. I stay for the kids and stupidly hoping she'll change. Either way, "It's cheaper to keep 'er!"
I need a release of stress or I'd pop (in many ways ;o). I'd rather keep the peace. And finally, you only live once. I don't want any regrets. I'm safe and careful and no one will ever know about my hobby and I'm at peace with it.

You live everyday, you die once. Might as well live everyday like it’s your last day. Someday it will be your last day.

 

[dangnabbit]

Yes, I have a conscience, but I also think that consenting adults should be able to do whatever they want. If I want to pay and someone wants to sell, so be it. I'm divorced 4 years (not related to mongering, ex was an addict. that was NOT fun). I dated although since COVID, I don't really date much, and I do this every couple of months. When I was in HS my pop used to say "your dick isn't made of soap. it's not gonna get used up the more you use it." Wear a cover, get checked periodically and what adults want to do they should be able to do. I definitely have a conscience, I just don't think it's wrong. Sue me.

 

[bonerdonor]

I don’t feel guilty about anything. What do you think our ladies are doing while we are at work? They are humping the UPS guy.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Do you have a conscience?


Yeah. I figure I'm maybe half human.
25% at least.
But I've never had a free "girlfriend".
Or even a free date.
So...yeah...no guilt whatsoever.
Hardcore monger to the core. Till I die.

 

[East Lake II]

My second and last marriage was a lie. Once she got things the way she wanted them she just closed up shop. She didn’t have to pretend to love me. After I left her and during the protracted (3+ years) divorce negotiations i tapped the phone. She told a girlfriend that she “figured we’d go our separate ways after our child went off to college”. She was simply waiting me out. We had sex about twice a month. She knew I would not put her at risk of an STD so the sex was a random test to keep me in line. She worked part time for walk around money. She had a good deal and wanted to keep it going as long as possible with minimal effort. I argued and debated with her for years. When I would corner her with facts she would cry and promise to change then quickly reset back to her agenda. After we were close to divorce I asked her what those tearful promises were all about since they would leave me in a state of confusion. She said in the most honest moment I ever witnessed from her: “I just told you what you wanted to hear”. Why am I telling you this? Because many women not all do not deserve one second of guilt. Many of you guys are married to women who plan to cash out one day. Many women have fantasies of traveling and having romantic flings after the children are grown. So good luck and start stashing some secret cash

This is sad, sorry you had to endure so much for so long.

Unfortunately, many figure out and “I just told you what you wanted to hear”. This happens everywhere.

 

[Tikelegacy]

some interesting takes here... lately for me, I've wondered about all the money i've spent on the hobby over the years. But then on the other hand, here I am taking a girl for a weekend trip to the caribbean and enjoying every minute of it ... prolly will never learn lol

 

[Sporty3064]

I felt guilty the first time with my first SB. Then it went away. I decompartmentalized. I’ve had several SB through the years and recently stopped. But do think about having a sexy young lady once in a while but It became too much work lol. I’ll stick to mongering now. Been doing it for 20 years. Just easier. I’m on a mongering break now too which I do sometimes. I’m happily married and our sex life is great. Gets better when I monger or had a SB believe it or not lol.
You live once so enjoy it! Just be smart about it

 

[Happy727272]

stop feeling guilty about it and I try to enjoy it.its very transactional, no strings attached no phone calls or worry about the wife finding out about the girl friend. I go I enjoy myself I get off I go back to my life. No one is hurt.