Escort Murdered. Suspect arrested.

[Starcraft09]

Nah you're just not right in the head my guy

Probably, so what now?

 

[krideynyc]

Where do I asked to agree?

You used the word agree in my quote.

Where in my paragraphs I’m stating that the killer was right?

When you make that statement in a review where the provider shorted a monger, no problem. In a discussion where the provider was murdered? Highly inappropriate. It comes across as taking the monger's side.

 

[Starcraft09]

No, nobody agrees with you because what you said is objectively wrong. It’s not a question of Karens waiting to pounce. Meanwhile, almost every time I see you post it’s to call reviewers shills, even without that appearing to be the case. Sounds like the Karen behavior is coming from your side…

Every time you see posts? ok investigator.

 

[Starcraft09]

You used the word agree in my quote.
When you make that statement in a review where the provider shorted a monger, no problem. In a discussion where the provider was murdered? Highly inappropriate. It comes across as taking the monger's side.

So just because I used the word “agree” means that I’m asking you to agree? Didn’t know that, you need to read and make sense of the context.
And again is not my fault that people perceive things certain way. If that was my behavior or inclination I wouldn’t have access to the same places your guys have access, I’m even in places where a good portion of the mongers here aren’t qualified.

 

[krideynyc]

So just because I used the word “agree” means that I’m asking you to agree? Didn’t know that, you need to read and make sense of the context.

Hard not to since all we go by is what you wrote. It's not face to face communication. Not the first time you seem to get defensive when someone misread what you wrote.

And again is not my fault that people perceive things certain way. If that was my behavior or inclination I wouldn’t have access to the same places your guys have access, I’m even in places where a good portion of the mongers here aren’t qualified.

It is entirely your fault. You chose to write that statement on your own.

 

[Starcraft09]

Hard not to since all we go by is what you wrote. It's not face to face communication. Not the first time you seem to get defensive when someone misread what you wrote.
It is entirely your fault. You chose to write that statement on your own.

I’m not being defensive, I’m just being human and expressing like everybody else. I thought that mongers were somehow more educated and able to discuss topics with a neutral point of view before making assumptions and being judgmental. But seems like there’s a majority here that are upset and frustrated with life, ready to make assumptions when they read word they don’t like, taking words out of context

 

[krideynyc]

I’m not being defensive, I’m just being human and expressing like everybody else. I thought that mongers were somehow more educated and able to discuss topics with a neutral point of view before making assumptions and being judgmental. But seems like there’s a majority here that are upset and frustrated with life, ready to make assumptions when they read word they don’t like, taking words out of context

We are educated. We know when it's appropriate to make that specific statement. And when there's a murder, it's not the place to say it. If you don't understand why, I can't help you.

 

[Starcraft09]

We are educated. We know when it's appropriate to make that specific statement. And when there's a murder, it's not the place to say it. If you don't understand why, I can't help you.

We? So you are now writing for other mongers?

 

[krideynyc]

We? So you are now writing for other mongers?

No need. They're all saying the same thing against you. And clearly, you don't understand why.

 

[Starcraft09]

No need. They're all saying the same thing against you. And clearly, you don't understand why.

Man up, this conversation is between your user name and mine. If using we makes you feel safer then keep doing it.

 

[hhnyc77]

They were discussing the time, apparently she was shorting him and that caused the disagreement. Providers need to respect the time the visitor is paying for.

I’m not being defensive, I’m just being human and expressing like everybody else. I thought that mongers were somehow more educated and able to discuss topics with a neutral point of view before making assumptions and being judgmental. But seems like there’s a majority here that are upset and frustrated with life, ready to make assumptions when they read word they don’t like, taking words out of context

Read the room. Many members (actually nine members, including myself) took issues with your original statement, which had extremely poor timing and can easily be construed as insensitive.

No one is disputing that providers should respect the time of customers, but that's a whole separate issue, and that topic is NOT the time nor place to mention it, especially given what transpired.

Take a hint when it's being offered by various members...no one here is out to "get you", but if you're in the wrong, they'll let you know. Instead of trying to argue with every single one of them, how about you acknowledge, apologize, clarify, and move on?

 

[Starcraft09]

Read the room. Many members (actually nine members, including myself) took issues with your original statement, which had extremely poor timing and can easily be construed as insensitive.

No one is disputing that providers should respect the time of customers, but that's a whole separate issue, and that topic is NOT the time nor place to mention it, especially given what transpired.

Take a hint when it's being offered by various members...no one here is out to "get you", but if you're in the wrong, they'll let you know. Instead of trying to argue with every single one of them, how about you acknowledge, apologize, clarify, and move on?

Of course, they should have stopped after I wrote that I feel for her family.

 

[krideynyc]

Man up, this conversation is between your user name and mine. If using we makes you feel safer then keep doing it.

I think you'll find I've have "manned up". I'm the only one to take the time to try and explain, and not make it personal.

 

[krideynyc]

BTW: you better hope she shorted him time. But if it turns out he tried to overstay, your statement would not only be extremely inappropriate, it would be a colossal mistake in judgement.

 

[Starcraft09]

I think you'll find I've have "manned up". I'm the only one to take the time to try and explain, and not make it personal.

Is nothing personal here man, just opinions, for the record “I’m not agreeing with the killer”

 

[Starcraft09]

BTW: you better hope she shorted him time. But if it turns out he tried to overstay, your statement would not only be extremely inappropriate, it would be a colossal mistake in judgement.

Next time if you are trying to help, you can text me in private instead.
Help in silence and get compensated in public!

 

[krideynyc]

Is nothing personal here man, just opinions, for the record “I’m not agreeing with the killer”

Never said you were. Just you timing and post made it seem like that's how it came across. Please don't ask me to explain further, I don't think I can.

 

[Starcraft09]

BTW: you better hope she shorted him time. But if it turns out he tried to overstay, your statement would not only be extremely inappropriate, it would be a colossal mistake in judgement.

I know man, you coming back to where we started? Clearly he shorted her time on earth, what a tragedy, this psycho should be hang in public!

 

[krideynyc]

Next time if you are trying to help, you can text me in private instead.
Help in silence and get compensated in public!

You could also do the same. You post in public, I'll respond in public.

 

[krideynyc]

I know man, you coming back to where we started? Clearly he shorted her time on earth, what a tragedy, this psycho should be hang in public!

Read post #13 again.