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Escorts vs Mistresses

Micawber

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Hey fellas,

Like the subject suggests, what are your thoughts on escorts vs having mistresses? I've only seen escorts on the side since that seems to be the easiest and safest way to play outside the home. But for anyone who's had mistresses, what are your thoughts? More expensive than escorts in the long run? More hassle? Or is more fulfilling?
 

newjersey2010

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I had one in 2015. Was meant to be a casual side piece but she ended up catching feelings and almost ruined my life. Much easier to sticking with escorts....once you finish the deed you wash your hands clean and just leave. Depending if the mistress has expensive taste they can pretty much fall into the same ballpark cost wise. If you do go down the mistress path, just wrap up and/or make sure she is on bc.
 

Shibsaeggi

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I agree with newjersey2010. The mistresses will catch feelings for you and will ask you, “Where is our relationship heading towards to?”

The sex with the mistresses is much better than escorts. Escorts have a time limit and the sex is mechanical. With the mistress, there is no time limit and the sex is very passionate.
 

Shibsaeggi

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Agreed. The best sex I’ve ever had was with my mistress. She literally made all my fantasy’s come true. Sent an entire day in a hotel room once a week. It was nuts. However she fell in love and ended up calling my wife. No bueno
Shit, she crossed the line by calling your wife. I hope you were able to resolve the situation.
 

Dc46

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Hey fellas,

Like the subject suggests, what are your thoughts on escorts vs having mistresses? I've only seen escorts on the side since that seems to be the easiest and safest way to play outside the home. But for anyone who's had mistresses, what are your thoughts? More expensive than escorts in the long run? More hassle? Or is more fulfilling?

Mistress is wayyyy more expensive than an escort. Plus less of an attachment issue that can sometimes happen.
 

charliebrown

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She may have forgiven you but she hadn’t forgotten at all.
You described my wife to a T. We do live a happy and good life, but the remember cards over the entire course of our life periodically pop up.
My response is "Honey, the only reason we are still married is because unlike you, I forget"
I do not ad a basic reason for our continued relationship success. My sense of feeling, hearing, seeing, smelling and tasting are all degrading at the same rate as her.
 

VJLUTZ

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Some distinctions:

AMP girl - Will typically service anyone that walks in the door that can pay. Degree of service may depend of the level of connection, however. AMP may bar certain people with bad track records. Typically no emotional connections, but may be open to it. No questions.
Escort - Will arrange meetings on demand for $$, but may be selective if you creep her out somehow. Typically no emotional connection, but there are exceptions. No questions.
Sugar Baby - Will arrange meetings on demand for $$, but more exclusive than an escort. You will likely have to audition first before she will see you. Will typically see a small group of approved men. Not as available as an escort. May develop an emotional connection to some men. However, some SBs may function more like escorts. No questions.
Mistress - Heavy emotional connection. Will be exclusive to you. Knows you very well. Understands that you are married and she will always be #2. Financial support may or may not be required.
GF - Mid to heavy emotional connection. Expected to be exclusive (both ways). Knows you well (or thinks she does). Assumes she is #1. Expects affection and tokens there of. Typically, no direct financial support. Provides regular, typically enthusiastic sex, including BBBJs. Aspires to be wife. Disposable.
Wife - Exclusive to you (and expects you to be exclusive to her). Knows you intimately. Assumes she is #1. Heavy financial and emotional support required. May or may not provide sex. If not, see one or more of the above. If she finds out about one of the above, will rip you apart like a wildcat (physically, emotionally, financially).
 

AutomaticSlim

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Mistress is wayyyy more expensive than an escort. Plus less of an attachment issue that can sometimes happen.
Do you think if George Clooney or Brad Pitt had a mistress, she would be "expensive"???
Not counting divorce/child support settlements if the affair is discovered by a wife...
 

AutomaticSlim

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I agree with newjersey2010. The mistresses will catch feelings for you and will ask you, “Where is our relationship heading towards to?”

The sex with the mistresses is much better than escorts. Escorts have a time limit and the sex is mechanical. With the mistress, there is no time limit and the sex is very passionate.
TBH, I would MUCH rather have mechanical, timed sex with a hot young girl under 30 than a "passionate relationship" with a mediocre Millie or an "age appropriate" female. Not even close. Not saying you guys are settling for plain janes or old bags, BTW. Just realistic about my options if I decided to go non P4P.
 

Srhsrh

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TBH, I would MUCH rather have mechanical, timed sex with a hot young girl under 30 than a "passionate relationship" with a mediocre Millie or an "age appropriate" female. Not even close. Not saying you guys are settling for plain janes or old bags, BTW. Just realistic about my options if I decided to go non P4P.
Personally I don’t really like girls under 30 much anymore, I prefer a girl whose got some experience and technique. And mechanical sounds wrong. It’s more like I prefer to have an active set of 3-4 spa girls or escorts I see at least every couple weeks, who are good friends, good sexual performers, and talkative likable girls when not fucking. You’re headed for one of those Japanese sex robots in 5 years, slim.
 

AutomaticSlim

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Personally I don’t really like girls under 30 much anymore, I prefer a girl whose got some experience and technique. And mechanical sounds wrong. It’s more like I prefer to have an active set of 3-4 spa girls or escorts I see at least every couple weeks, who are good friends, good sexual performers, and talkative likable girls when not fucking. You’re headed for one of those Japanese sex robots in 5 years, slim.
Don't think I could do it.
I'm too hooked on the real thing.

But God, the money I would save if I did that...
 
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