Has a sex worker ever spent money on you?

[Perfecto]

I guess this is the sequel to what motivates guys to engage in simp behavior. I've had a very good couple of weeks...Ice Cube's song "Today was a good day" pops into my head...lol. First I went into a popular AMP and pulled one of the early 20-something Latinas that was working there and turned her into an SB. I'm now seeing her on her day off for $400, no time limit. Super hot Colombian...all natural, huge chest, tiny waist, amazing ass. I fucked her about 45 minutes on the massage table with CIM/Swallow and told her I needed to see her again outside of the agency and she was down!!! Saw her recently at a hotel and fucked her into submission after about 90 minutes sucking/fucking, followed by a slow cock worship session and CIM/Swallow. I'm shocked but she's a serious keeper...

Getting to the subject heading. Has a provider every taken you out for lunch/dinner, bought you a gift or spent money on you? I had an ATF that I saw about 8 years ago text me out of the blue a couple of weeks ago. Our connection was ridiculously strong and I loved her as about as much as you could love a provider and the feeling was mutual...lol. This was well before the age of entitlement and FinDom crap that Indy providers now partake in. Last time I saw her was well before the pandemic...probably 2018. She wanted to re-connect and apologized for not being in touch. Turns out she changed her number twice due to stalkers, moved away during the pandemic, lost both her parents, etc. All understandable stuff.

She's now back and met again at her place. She offered to order lunch, so we could catch up prior to our date. I was surprised because I can't recall the last time this has happened, if at all. I've gotten cards from providers, discounts and a few free sessions but never can I remember one buying ME lunch/dinner.

QUESTION: Has this every happened to anyone or have you ever received a true act of kindness from a provider?

 

[Rutts Hutt]

I went to dinner with a provider. I was her last customer of the day, helped her close up and we went to a nice restaurant. We shared the bill. Of course she used the tip I had given her an hour before. She's a sweet person.

 

[kantuchdis]

Yes - I've had a provider give gifts of dress shirts, scarves, underwear (I swear), socks. She was a provider whom most considered a more conservative person with quite a few boundaries. But with me she was extremely open, and I mean open. The gifts made me pause because they were gifts lovers and people in committed relationships give each other. That was hardly the case with us, so I did the right thing and got scarce. Too much of a risk of entanglement for my blood. Unless you're looking for a GF, proceed with caution.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Yes.

- Dominican American escort that became my SB in early 2000s used to give presents on occasion.

- The Korean floor worker/MMS I "went out with" for 3 years in late 2000s used to give me presents and also cook meals for me that I could put in my fridge and eat five dinners a week. She also would do my laundry and fold my clothes when she stayed over with me.

- Second Korean SB/GF used to give me presents and a few times sent presents from Seoul.

Bottom line. I spent MUCH more money on them then the pittance they spent on me. Not even close.
ALL the presents were completely useless crap. Stuff I had no use for or clothing styles I would never wear.
I would always smile and say thank you, but I still have a lot of this junk in my closet. Some still in the original wrappers. I need to get over to the Good Will box...

 

[Perfecto]

Yes - I've had a provider give gifts of dress shirts, scarves, underwear (I swear), socks. She was a provider whom most considered a more conservative person with quite a few boundaries. But with me she was extremely open, and I mean open. The gifts made me pause because they were gifts lovers and people in committed relationships give each other. That was hardly the case with us, so I did the right thing and got scarce. Too much of a risk of entanglement for my blood. Unless you're looking for a GF, proceed with caution.

That's very impressive though...

 

[Perfecto]

Yes.

- Dominican American escort that became my SB in early 2000s used to give presents on occasion.

- The Korean floor worker/MMS I "went out with" for 3 years in late 2000s used to give me presents and also cook meals for me that I could put in my fridge and eat five dinners a week. She also would do my laundry and fold my clothes when she stayed over with me.

- Second Korean SB/GF used to give me presents and a few times sent presents from Seoul.

Bottom line. I spent MUCH more money on them then the pittance they spent on me. Not even close.
ALL the presents were completely useless crap. Stuff I had no use for or clothing styles I would never wear.
I would always smile and say thank you, but I still have a lot of this junk in my closet. Some still in the original wrappers. I need to get over to the Good Will box...

Still good to see that some providers care to some extent and still have a heart

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Still good to see that some providers care to some extent and still have a heart

They all wanted to get married.
The first one so she could later soak me in a divorce (no she never said that but it was obvious), the 2 Korean ones for green cards.

 

[krideynyc]

Yes. We just started casually dating. She always insisted on going Dutch. Surprised me with a B&B weekend in New Hampshire. Found out her net worth is about 10X mine. Didn't stop her if she wanted to pay afterwards.

 

[Rutts Hutt]

They all wanted to get married.
The first one so she could later soak me in a divorce (no she never said that but it was obvious), the 2 Korean ones for green cards.

Hey Slim, I always wondered about this situation. We're the Koreans upfront about wanting green cards and it just being a paper marriage?

 

[Handsome Matt]

I guess this is the sequel to what motivates guys to engage in simp behavior. I've had a very good couple of weeks...Ice Cube's song "Today was a good day" pops into my head...lol. First I went into a popular AMP and pulled one of the early 20-something Latinas that was working there and turned her into an SB. I'm now seeing her on her day off for $400, no time limit. Super hot Colombian...all natural, huge chest, tiny waist, amazing ass. I fucked her about 45 minutes on the massage table with CIM/Swallow and told her I needed to see her again outside of the agency and she was down!!! Saw her recently at a hotel and fucked her into submission after about 90 minutes sucking/fucking, followed by a slow cock worship session and CIM/Swallow. I'm shocked but she's a serious keeper...

Getting to the subject heading. Has a provider every taken you out for lunch/dinner, bought you a gift or spent money on you? I had an ATF that I saw about 8 years ago text me out of the blue a couple of weeks ago. Our connection was ridiculously strong and I loved her as about as much as you could love a provider and the feeling was mutual...lol. This was well before the age of entitlement and FinDom crap that Indy providers now partake in. Last time I saw her was well before the pandemic...probably 2018. She wanted to re-connect and apologized for not being in touch. Turns out she changed her number twice due to stalkers, moved away during the pandemic, lost both her parents, etc. All understandable stuff.

She's now back and met again at her place. She offered to order lunch, so we could catch up prior to our date. I was surprised because I can't recall the last time this has happened, if at all. I've gotten cards from providers, discounts and a few free sessions but never can I remember one buying ME lunch/dinner.

QUESTION: Has this every happened to anyone or have you ever received a true act of kindness from a provider?

Yes. Two providers took me out to eat, one on my birthday, and one on Father's day. And one of them bought me a dress shirt, and dress pants as a gift. But as Slim said in his response, I spent a ton of money as a regular at their spas so what they spent on me wasn't even close to what I spent as their regular customer. But it was still appreciated and memorable.

 

[Perfecto]

Yes. Two providers took me out to eat, one on my birthday, and one on Father's day. And one of them bought me a dress shirt, and dress pants as a gift. But as Slim said in his response, I spent a ton of money as a regular at their spas so what they spent on me wasn't even close to what I spent as their regular customer. But it was still appreciated and memorable.

That's still an act of kindness that they definitely didn't have to do...

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Hey Slim, I always wondered about this situation. We're the Koreans upfront about wanting green cards and it just being a paper marriage?

The first one was upfront but tried to sugar coat it.
Saying stuff like "you are getting older, don't you think it is time for a change in your life?".
What she really wanted was to start a legit business here and have me as a partner.
I told her I have/make enough money from my job and do not need a business.

The second one was in a lot of trouble (no I won't get into what it was) and the marriage/green card would have really bailed her out.

I may be a little dense, but I am not that dumb. No marriage for me.

 

[Uniquelyme]

I've had two providers take me out to lunch. Both providers i had seen less than 5 times. Both inexpensive lunches. $15 & $20 max for my orders.

If we are talking sbs one bought me a supreme hoody, a fitted hat a massager and i would fuck her for free half the time.

Another one bought me a calvin klien shirt, cologne, weed grinder, socks. Fucked her for free more than half the time.

These are within the past 5 years or so. Would have to think longer on the other ones.

 

[mccovey]

The first one was upfront but tried to sugar coat it.
Saying stuff like "you are getting older, don't you think it is time for a change in your life?".
What she really wanted was to start a legit business here and have me as a partner.
I told her I have/make enough money from my job and do not need a business.

The second one was in a lot of trouble (no I won't get into what it was) and the marriage/green card would have really bailed her out.

I may be a little dense, but I am not that dumb. No marriage for me.

Slim , glad you had the hard knocks experience to see what would have been coming . I suspect a lot of mongers of all ages have been taken for the proverbial ride

 

[DealBreaker]

Have been thrown a few bones as a regular. Mostly men's accessories or a few drinks out.
Also had a few drop in after-after hours, usually drunk & exhausted to shower & crash, who offered breakfast or a quickie (never both).

 

[waguy]

In the 2000s met up with a Brazilian escort for a few lunches and dinners - she paid most of the time. She wanted to talk about life, kids, etc. I liked her. It got too real so kept it professional.

Before the pandemic, a Hungarian ATF took me to lunch and coffees to chat about issues with her boyfriend and another side business. She was very clear about never dating married guys so it never got weird.

 

[cornballdeguerre]

Went on a few dates with a former Lears girl. Would split the check or she'd buy me a drink. Not exactly spending money on me but it was the first time that it was a legit non-transactional thing out in the real world.

Dated 2 providers in Europe, one being pornstar Capri Lmonde when I worked overseas after she quit the industry and escorting. She was very sweet and nurturing. Definitely fed me a lot and evolved into a non-transactional relationship. I still see here if I'm ever swinging by.

The other being a Belarussian 21 yo. Sessions together were still always paid, but we hung out afterwards. She actually introduced me to her sister (nonworking girl) and would cook for me and bring wine and cigars.

 

[sushiman]

I've had providers (indies) take me out for both lunch and dinners just because I was in the area. We were good friends and I never crossed the line with them (like taking free sessions - extra time; yes).

Unfortunately, one passed from Cancer and the other left the biz.

 

[Ronin]

A few times, but it’s very heavily slanted the other way

 

[tokintom86]

In roughly my decade in the game, I've had two sex workers spend money on me, one was about $50 which was a quick brunch, the other about ~$800 that included a gracious gift, dinners, drinks, taxis, etc.

In terms of "free time" or "extra time" away from whatever incall they're using, I'm ahead ~50k or so if i had to guess. Treating sex workers with respect can definitely work in your favor.