Just came out of something with a massage girl. I thought I was fully prepared for what was ahead since I had outmanuevered a more upscale, manipulative provider over a decade ago. So I figured no foreign-born, rural peasant could game me. She gave me the same story of struggle and toil back in China.
These girls are truly only out for themselves. I didn't give her money nor did I ever pay for her time, but it was the utter selfishness, and inane arguments that got to me. She initially came off as super sweet and naive to the workings of the world. But there is a worm in her heart, and she used her doe-eyes and helpless facial expressions to get her way. I would frequently find large inconsistencies in what she told me and in her behaviors. When I questioned her about these discrepancies, she would blow up and get explosively defensive. She would use the language barrier and cultural divide as reasons why I wasn't understanding things correctly and tried to gaslight me often with these reasons. The damage she could inflict psychologically was impressive.
Unbeknownst to her, I had rudimentary level Chinese reading skills, so I could see her texting off messages to other guys constantly once we really got deeply involved, all the while telling me she was texting her family or friends back in China late night (morning time there). Who knows how many suckers she had on the hook? Her ultimate prize was me helping her with a place of her own and told me if we were together exclusively I would need to give her x-amount of dollars since she could not work and get her an apartment. I'm sure fixing her legal status issue would come next so I bailed.
I told her to fuck off and cut ties with her. The backstory of a hard life is my soft spot, I suppose. And she zeroed in on that big-time. She would mirror things she picked up on me saying that seemed important to me. She was a much better "opponent" than I had expected.
I didn't come from much but I made something of myself through an insane work ethic. While I understand the socio-economic mobility I experienced may not be possible in other countries, you make the best of the situation. You don't sell your soul, and become the empty vessels these whores have become. Though I survived this episode nearly unscathed, I wouldn't do it again. The marginal fun was not worth all the time consumption and the drama. Treat these whores the way they view you: as foreign devils to be used.