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Helping A Provider

AutomaticSlim

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Can you provide evidence and an example?
0bama fooled people. Google the videos of the woman who didn’t think she had to pay her mortgage or pay to put gas in her car once 0 was elected. Oh and if you like your doctor you can keep your doctor.
Or that whole farce about Benghazi being caused by a YouTube video.
 

Drjon7

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In reality we all sell out in our own way and pay a big price for it. If you follow the program - College, High paying job, Marriage, kids, a big house, all leading to misery and then go to amps to make it bearable. Our way of life is just as fucked up, it just look better on the surface.
I bailed before it got too out of hand.
 

Rogermoore

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Just came out of something with a massage girl. I thought I was fully prepared for what was ahead since I had outmanuevered a more upscale, manipulative provider over a decade ago. So I figured no foreign-born, rural peasant could game me. She gave me the same story of struggle and toil back in China.

These girls are truly only out for themselves. I didn't give her money nor did I ever pay for her time, but it was the utter selfishness, and inane arguments that got to me. She initially came off as super sweet and naive to the workings of the world. But there is a worm in her heart, and she used her doe-eyes and helpless facial expressions to get her way. I would frequently find large inconsistencies in what she told me and in her behaviors. When I questioned her about these discrepancies, she would blow up and get explosively defensive. She would use the language barrier and cultural divide as reasons why I wasn't understanding things correctly and tried to gaslight me often with these reasons. The damage she could inflict psychologically was impressive.

Unbeknownst to her, I had rudimentary level Chinese reading skills, so I could see her texting off messages to other guys constantly once we really got deeply involved, all the while telling me she was texting her family or friends back in China late night (morning time there). Who knows how many suckers she had on the hook? Her ultimate prize was me helping her with a place of her own and told me if we were together exclusively I would need to give her x-amount of dollars since she could not work and get her an apartment. I'm sure fixing her legal status issue would come next so I bailed.

I told her to fuck off and cut ties with her. The backstory of a hard life is my soft spot, I suppose. And she zeroed in on that big-time. She would mirror things she picked up on me saying that seemed important to me. She was a much better "opponent" than I had expected.

I didn't come from much but I made something of myself through an insane work ethic. While I understand the socio-economic mobility I experienced may not be possible in other countries, you make the best of the situation. You don't sell your soul, and become the empty vessels these whores have become. Though I survived this episode nearly unscathed, I wouldn't do it again. The marginal fun was not worth all the time consumption and the drama. Treat these whores the way they view you: as foreign devils to be used.
Phuckin whores. Your story is on point, similar to an episode that I just concluded. Whores will be whores, they may look very different on the outside, but mostly, all the same on the inside. For me, what was most surprising was that I actually became emotionally tied to her. Admittedly, I consider myself a low down rotten scoundrel with confidence that there is a really warm and uncomfortable spot reserved for me in hell....I sometimes think about how I could actually have feelings for a whore. They are well trained, and manipulative. Some are qualified to be government spies. Anyhow, learned my lesson. I will do as others have said on this thread, go in, blow my load in their mouths and leave to write about it on this forum. Never again.
 

Nycrva

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Can you provide evidence and an example?
0bama fooled people. Google the videos of the woman who didn’t think she had to pay her mortgage or pay to put gas in her car once 0 was elected. Oh and if you like your doctor you can keep your doctor.
This is a dumb ass statement lol. Obama didn’t fool people that woman was just an idiot lol
 

Unregistered User

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Phuckin whores. Your story is on point, similar to an episode that I just concluded. Whores will be whores, they may look very different on the outside, but mostly, all the same on the inside. For me, what was most surprising was that I actually became emotionally tied to her. Admittedly, I consider myself a low down rotten scoundrel with confidence that there is a really warm and uncomfortable spot reserved for me in hell....I sometimes think about how I could actually have feelings for a whore. They are well trained, and manipulative. Some are qualified to be government spies. Anyhow, learned my lesson. I will do as others have said on this thread, go in, blow my load in their mouths and leave to write about it on this forum. Never again.
Similar for me @ considering myself a scoundrel. lol

Yeah, I surprised even myself getting emotionally attached to a whore as well, especially when this wasn't my first rodeo with a chick in this line of work.

We have to stay vigilant or these parasites will wreak havoc on our lives and move onto the next host.
 

Zzzz

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The flip side to this way of thinking is. How can you or any of us for that matter fuck a Woman who will fuck just about anyone and pay them no less??!!
There are degrees to depravity.

You need to qualify your statement - "fuck a Woman who will fuck just about anyone" for the right price.

This applies to just about any woman (and man for that matter).

I don't know about you but I get a different feeling from thinking about a gal (with a low barrier to access) who gets cum shot into the back of her mouth by 6-7 random guys per day vs a gal (with a high barrier to access) who gets cum shot into the back of her mouth by 3-4 high-calibre guys per week vs a gal (with a high barrier to access) who gets cum shot into the back of her mouth by me alone.

Again, there are degrees to depravity - those thoughts only afflict me when considering the more depraved situations. :sneaky:
 

Kraven

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What!!! Every provider is a crazy lying criminal! LOL. Crazy in that they sleep with 5-10 strangers a day. Lying by pretending they love and care for you (so you return) and criminal that they get compensated (tax free) with soooo much of your money!

I think its important to keep everything in perspective and acknowledge each other's motives. Providers are in it to hustle money. They are not in it for sex, you, or a relationship. Guys are in it because they are missing something: companionship, self esteem, fantasy, whatever. Two completely different reasons bring the provider and monger together. It works fine in the short term. Beyond that, you are probably looking for trouble.
thanks for bringing the mongers
Pathology into the equation. Sexual addiction does not exactly attract nor bring out the best in humans either.
 

Nycrva

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Well I think sucking dick and having cum in my mouth would break me too but I'm a heterosexual male lol. I wish women would pay for access to my dick. It would be a dream come true.
Until you get someone who you wouldn’t touch with a 10 foot pole and you gotta go down on her and rim her lol
 

didi88

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If you read nothing else on this site, you must read the above quote. For many of these gals, they have become shells of their former selves.

For some odd reason, I found myself contemplating what it is like to be one of these gals - taking cum in the mouth day in and day out by multiple strange men, fucking whoever comes through the door, no questions asked. I know these thoughts sit at the back of most of our minds, but when you really start to think about it, it's like holy shit...how could anyone debase themselves to such a low and pitiful existence.
I’ve also thought about this from time to time. Thinking about what it must be like for them doing this day in day out. I think they must put themselves into a massive state of denial, just pretending that this isn’t really as bad as it actually is. And justifying to themselves all the while that the money they’re making will be worth it in the end. If they can’t do that, they won’t last long in this business
 

Kraven

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I’ve also thought about this from time to time. Thinking about what it must be like for them doing this day in day out. I think they must put themselves into a massive state of denial, just pretending that this isn’t really as bad as it actually is. And justifying to themselves all the while that the money they’re making will be worth it in the end. If they can’t do that, they won’t last long in this business
The massive compartmentalization required must eventually cause too much damage to the self and soul. I think it must be time dependent as well with the veteran women driven beyond jaded. How can they ever have a normal relationship after hooking?
 

Bxxx85

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I guess if guys cared about these women they would stop seeing them....,
And in many cases, if they really cared about us, they would stop seeing us. I recall a study which revealed that about 1 in 3 mongers want an emotional connection with their providers. Many of us are terribly lonely or otherwise lacking emotional connection in our lives. Many of us suffer psychologically from not being able to form healthy attachments and mongering only seems to support this pathology. Many of us are so sex addicted that we go deep into debt to finance our hobby.

The truth is that social relationships that can be bought are always emotionally bankrupt. This goes beyond sex work and into the market in general. Markets are useful but you can't buy an authentic emotional connection or social bond.
 

Itslian

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I know this gal at wappingerfalls falls ands tells me its her last two months in USA and she is going to make as much money as possible no matter what. I said its dangerous and she says I'm tuned in to it. She needs favors but I rejected them. This is like russian roulette. No matter what promises if IN SPA has new gal I will return and wait it out.
 

Jackboner

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And in many cases, if they really cared about us, they would stop seeing us. I recall a study which revealed that about 1 in 3 mongers want an emotional connection with their providers. Many of us are terribly lonely or otherwise lacking emotional connection in our lives. Many of us suffer psychologically from not being able to form healthy attachments and mongering only seems to support this pathology. Many of us are so sex addicted that we go deep into debt to finance our hobby.

The truth is that social relationships that can be bought are always emotionally bankrupt. This goes beyond sex work and into the market in general. Markets are useful but you can't buy an authentic emotional connection or social bond.
They can’t stop seeing us, they need the money. Mongers make the market.
 

Mara_massage

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Don't have her work at your company.
Too many possibilities for trouble.
If anything, try to help her get a job someplace else.
Don't give her money.
Tell her that your company is scaling back and not hiring for the foreseeable future.
Suggest she could meet you in a hotel for some fun and you could give her some money if she is interested.
And wish her the best of luck no matter what happens.
True.
 
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