Standard r&t shops, most guys walk in and are directed by next up, escorted to a room, undress, face down naked and get a massage for 35 to 45 minutes with a girl you may not have selected yourself. 15 minutes left, she applies oil, you touch her areas, pop, get cleaned up and bounce. These girls don't offer anything extra beyond standard, so if you're waiting on her/them to do more it ain't gonna happen if you wait on her. The other thing that comes into play is, how often do you visit? Does she know you or is she/they familiar with you? Does she see you quite regularly? These matter, IMHO. The easy ones are motivated by cash, shit man just make her/them a good tip offer, many will accommodate your extra's request on that note. Some take a bit more convincing so to speak, play around with provider, set yourself apart from the typical visitor, its called foreplay. Hugs, kisses, giving compliments etc etc, or as I like to say "man vs woman", the man is by default the alpha, not cocky, not arrogant, just confident, sure of self, these women are just that, women, they respond as such. Its only an hour, letting her give you a so so massage for the majority of the hour makes her tired, she's just looking for the ending at this point, finish you up, clean you and escort you out so she can take a break. I seldom get a massage, I feel its a waste of time since I'm there for the sexy willing provider and her byond standard menu, even if she doesn't technically have one. The look on their face when returning to the room and I'm still fully dressed and announce I don't want a massage, they have a script, their normal run of the mill routine, fuck that, I want those panties off and Miss Kitty to make an appearance.