Roxyclin, you go to one of the AMPs reviewed on this site that offers HE or FS. And request a provider from that review by name. Recommend that you call ahead and make an appointment. If this is your first time ever, I guarantee that you will be nervous, anxious and stressed as fuck. Be cool, man! The best way to deal with it is to be prepared so that you can really enjoy the experience. Read the reviews, pick an AMP and provider that matches what you’re looking for. Call ahead, make an appointment. The AMP may ask for your name when you make the appointment so be ready to provide one. If you want to use a fake name, make one up before you call. Shower before you head out. Or better yet, go to an AMP that has a shower and shower there. And bring a mix $10s, $20s and at least one $100 bill. I always give the $100 for the house fee and ask for change. I love it when the manager comes in the room to give me my change when Im fully undressed to take her money. And be polite. Even polite to the point of being submissive. Let the manager and provider know that you’re one of the good guys. The provider may ask how much pressure to use so have a response ready. If you aren’t sure just say medium. And make some small talk. Ask how her day is going, if business is good today, how long she been working here. And at some point, introduce your self (remember your fake name, if you used one). And if you’re asian, she’ll may ask what kind of asian you are. If you want to make shit up, just have an answer ready. And remember to ask for her name. Usually I ask for her name and follow it up with asking which days she works here. When she’s working your back, I leave my arms draped down off the table. If she rubs up against your arm, I caress her legs and ask if its okay to do so. And if its okay, I’ll eventually make my way up her ass and ask again if its okay. Remember be polite because you are one of the good guys. You’ll get a hot towel wipe down and that when you know the flip is coming. Have a service in mind. And have a tip amount in mind. If you read the reviews, the services offered and tip amount should be ready in your head. And remember, the provider has probably heard all sorts of requests and price ranges from others, so there’s nothing you’re gonna say to her that she hasn’t heard before. This maybe your first time and you’re nervous as shit, but she probably seen a thousand dicks before you and this is all par for the course. So be cool, man! And remember, your first time won’t be your best experience. And it won’t be your last experience either. There’s will be good ones and there will be shitty ones. But a little advance preparation will make your first time hopefully go smoothly and less stressful.