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How do you guys deal with the SO?

jagris1

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I'm locked down by my SO and wonder how you guys get to hobby (obviously to those who apply). Any of you got your girl ok with you going to amps? Any feedback is much appreciated.
 

Bultaco103

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I'm locked down by my SO and wonder how you guys get to hobby (obviously to those who apply). Any of you got your girl ok with you going to amps? Any feedback is much appreciated.
I go maybe once a month with the full support of my SO. I told her before we started dating and she feels it’s therapeutic and not a threat. She even has gone a few times. I am certain if I preferred the spa over her that freedom to play might change.
 

Vell2577

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I'm locked down by my SO and wonder how you guys get to hobby (obviously to those who apply). Any of you got your girl ok with you going to amps? Any feedback is much appreciated.
For me there is way too much to lose if I get Covid so while every inch of me wants to hobby rn I am waiting until 2 weeks after my final vaccine. I’ll feel better about not spread it to vulnerable family members after that.
 

jagris1

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Thing is i started the hobby when we still had space and now we live together, i only ever think about the 3 times I've ever got to hobby and now I gotta put my mind elsewhere, real bummer
 

DirtyDom

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My wife left me when I got arrested for soliciting a sex worker. It’s been painful being alone but it’s whatever. This is the life I chose and no turning back now.
 

Pags

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I go maybe once a month with the full support of my SO. I told her before we started dating and she feels it’s therapeutic and not a threat. She even has gone a few times. I am certain if I preferred the spa over her that freedom to play might change.
Good for you that she’s cool with it. My wife would never give me the ok. But my wife probably thinks I fool around but lives by the old rule “what you don’t know wont hurt you “. If you don’t mind me asking, are you guys in an open relationship? Are you ok or would you be ok with her stepping out?
 

jagris1

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Keeping sex good with your SO is important too. If you’re not having fun with her and vice versa, you’re probably leaning into a really dangerous habit.
For me I'm just bored of the girl so i gotta figure some shit out but if this falls through then it's open season lol
 

L8yPleaser

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I wait until the monger leaves the house. Then knock on the door, strike a deal with the SO, and make sure she's well taken care of :p !

(Please pardon this 'tongue in ..... errr ........... cheek .....' response and accept it's intent :giggle: )
 

FatCho

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Haven't been going since I'm working from home. A 300 dollar withdrawal will look really fishy. Hard to do this hobby if you're not going to work physically. Hence no reviews for a year.
 

Bultaco103

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Good for you that she’s cool with it. My wife would never give me the ok. But my wife probably thinks I fool around but lives by the old rule “what you don’t know wont hurt you “. If you don’t mind me asking, are you guys in an open relationship? Are you ok or would you be ok with her stepping out?
Not a classic open thing. Like I do not date other girls and she doesn’t date other guys. It’s more of a massage thing and we sometimes have one visit us for fun. She has seen a guy massage w extras, but mostly I go. Other question of would I be OK if she had some fun on the side? Yes. If not I’d be a jerk since I’m allowed to have fun.
 

Brandolkt

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Thing is i started the hobby when we still had space and now we live together, i only ever think about the 3 times I've ever got to hobby and now I gotta put my mind elsewhere, real bummer
I feel you bro. I live with my girl too. We have identical work hours though so sometimes I just call in late, leave work early or call out all together. I also chill with my close friends pretty often, so some days I just tell her I’m going to see them. I typically get to monger once or twice a week with that system, which is good enough for me since I have so much other bullshit going on in my life that I wouldn’t even be able to find the time to go more if I could.
 

Executive100

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I go maybe once a month with the full support of my SO. I told her before we started dating and she feels it’s therapeutic and not a threat. She even has gone a few times. I am certain if I preferred the spa over her that freedom to play might change.
You said she has gone a few times... Male providers? Happy endings?
(if you dont mind to share)
 

jtopia2011

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Keeping sex good with your SO is important too. If you’re not having fun with her and vice versa, you’re probably leaning into a really dangerous habit.

Thats a great point. My SO and i have been struggling to keep it fun. The past few months have been few and far when we've gotten intimate because apparently, her area is hurting from the strong detergent we use. Shes recently been applying cream and its helped but it has really slowed our intimacy ( we rarely do it now and its only when i initiate as she is slowly recovering). Its been about 4-5 months or so now. if anyone has any tips on this, i'd greatly appreciate it.
 
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