I’m new to this forum, but I’ve been doing this a long time, from back in the SF RB days (not sure if I’m allowed to mention the name). I‘ve been married the whole time. At first, it was just a bit of variety because I was still getting sex at home. But that became less frequent, and my hobbying increased. Unfortunately, I’m convinced that it’s impossible to keep the same passion with one person for years. It’s just human nature that your SO isn’t as exciting as a hot young girl, and for those of us with a high sex drive (probably everyone on this forum) this hobby provides the means to keep us sane.
I took a break during Covid, but I just retired this year from a busy career and now I’m back to some type of fun about 3 times per week with lots of golf in between. I mix it up between massages with HE’s, massages with FS, and Kgirls. The Kgirls are always the highlight of my week.
Bottom line, I’m spending 2 - 2.5k per month, which is kinda crazy, but when I run the numbers I will be fine financially. I’m at the point in my life that I do what makes me happy, and nothing makes me happier than a sexy girl.