How to ask about a specific request

[littleguy5]

I have sort of a different kink, developed from an ex of mine. She enjoyed spanking me and rewarded me with a HE. I grew to crave it, but now she's gone.

In short I like a bit of a spanking. Nothing severe or too painful. But just over the knee, a few swats on my butt. And end with a tender HJ.

I was thinking of asking a provider, either AMP, LMP, or RMP to recreate that. How and when should I ask for that? Should I ask the MMS? I tried to ask my last AMP provider, but she really didn't understand me.

Any independents that might be best for this also? I'd prefer a AMP/LMP/RMP because of costs though.

 

[Wayne1250]

When the girl starts the ST before the flip just say, "spank me honey". Not an outrageous request. Then maybe she will use her finger or tongue too, lol.

 

[littleguy5]

When the girl starts the ST before the flip just say, "spank me honey". Not an outrageous request. Then maybe she will use her finger or tongue too, lol.

Good idea! Hope she obliges
Ideally it would be at an LMP, but they can be pricey / stingy

 

[gaga273]

Mr little....imho/experience...indies who are fluent in our language are the best to accommodate your preferences....amp have a different culture, however they try to please... i have a couple regular indies that know what "props' i like...it all depends on the "prop".....YMMV.....always

 

[TJ from NJ]

My special request would to get milked. But that requires a special table

 

[rooc74]

My special request would to get milked. But that requires a special table

And they are very hard to find. At least for me.