I think I might be done

[charliebrown]

Agree about the masks - perhaps it's an effect of the little blue pill, but I usually get stuffed sinuses when I'm face down on a massage table. I can only imagine it would be much worse with a massage.

I do have a wife who's loving and affectionate. It's just anything sexual that she's not much interested in. Perhaps at 61, I should just start accepting that I'll need to live without.

If you stop taking the blue pill, you may not have to go to the spas as often.

 

[craigslust40]

If you stop taking the blue pill, you may not have to go to the spas as often.

That's another thing I'm saving money on!

 

[East Lake II]

It appears as if the lockdown gave many a pause or at least a slowdown that has allowed us to rethink at what level of participation we want to reengage.

 

[craigslust40]

It appears as if the lockdown gave many a pause or at least a slowdown that has allowed us to rethink at what level of participation we want to reengage.

Yes, and since we're not imbibing, we have no new reviews to offer. Soon we won't be able to read private details here and there won't be much reason to come here at all. Maybe just to get nostalgic!

 

[Martyw]

Checking this site does not make it any easier

 

[Wrongme_covid]

Even if you did go back, the mask puts a major damper on the experience.

I would consider quitting, but I actually love a good massage and most of the providers I have grown close too absolutely give a good massage.

If you have a wife who is loving and AFFECTIONATE, ABSOLUTELY stay home and make two bodies one as often as possible.

Tell ot to my wife pls....

 

[BillaBong]

Why not just try a massage and a HJ for a while. It will be cheaper for you and a lot of the guilt wouldn't be there. Sometimes instead of FS I just go for a half hour relaxing massage and a tug. A lot of the pressure is off of you and you leave all relaxed.

you nailed it.. I do the same, go for 30 min, extend for an hr if all goes well and all is good!

 

[BillaBong]

Checking this site does not make it any easier

Thats the first thing to do if one wants to quit!

 

[Wrongme_covid]

I have not hobbied since the lockdown started in March. My main reason for not returning is the virus, but I question whether I ever will return. Not because I didn't enjoy it, but because it's too addictive. I have realized the benefits of stopping - my financial situation has improved tremendously by not spending a couple of thousand dollars a month i really could not afford to spend. My relationship with my wife has improved because of the removal of the guilt and the removal of the fear that I might get caught and the removal of the fear that even a BBBJ could result in bringing home a disease. Then again, if I really wanted to quit permanently, I'd probably stop coming to sites like this.

I see one provider a month, so financial drain is minimal.
I do quit hobby intermittengly, but get dragged back in every few months.

This hobby is addicting.

 

[RubberDuck360]

The experiences are all so familiar and repetitive I‘m just bored by the whole thing.

This - my friend, is the realization that pleasure in of itself, is empty. The boredom comes because there's nothing more to look forward too. No mystery, no challenge, nothing more to reach for.

Ongoing joy and fulfillment actually comes from the journey, not the destination.

Time to start a new journey into a new hobby. Find a different challenge.

(BTW, this is also why there are more fireworks and excitement when we are dating, because there is always something ahead of us to reach for, but then when we get married, that destination is reached, and things kinda get dull and boring. Speaking from experience)

 

[craigslust40]

I see one provider a month, so financial drain is minimal.
I do quit hobby intermittengly, but get dragged back in every few months.

This hobby is addicting.

If you go only once a month, your addiction is nothing like mine. I doubt I could limit myself like that if I started up again.

 

[Lutz]

Good advise in many of these comments. It reads like a transcript from a Sex Addicts Anonymous session (something I've often considered joining). But these posts are realistic, non-judgmental, down to earth and filled with good comments. We're basically all decent people, I believe, but the allure of a forbidden encounter with a sexy stranger can just take over your mind. Thank you fellow Amp Visitors and Hobbyists for making me feel like I'm not the only one battling this urge and reminding me of better options.

 

[foolaround]

Not that I get out very often, but mostly because I have personally found that it's difficult to mind an attendant who can actually perform a good massage!.

 

[foolaround]

To find!.

 

[Nutleypo]

Agree about the masks - perhaps it's an effect of the little blue pill, but I usually get stuffed sinuses when I'm face down on a massage table. I can only imagine it would be much worse with a massage.

I do have a wife who's loving and affectionate. It's just anything sexual that she's not much interested in. Perhaps at 61, I should just start accepting that I'll need to live without.

Whenever I desire the help of the blue pill I use nasal decongestant afterwards. Fixes the stuffed sinuses. Although I've only gone to and would ever go to providers where a mask isn't required, Indies.

 

[Chicagoboy]

I'm never going to stop. I tried but it doesn't work. The only thing that helped this year was the lock down. Plus I had the covid virus on top of it. Now I feel pretty safe having the antibodies from the virus.

 

[kantuchdis]

If a person wanted to do anything why do they feel the need to tell others? Just go do, or don't do, whatever it is.

 

[kantuchdis]

TBH - mongering is the safest, least disruptive option for males to satisfy their natural sexual urges and acquire peace of mind. Simple.

If a guy's libido is diminished for whatever reason and doesn't feel like going to an AMP anymore, fine, and so what? Who cares? Don't take offense but just disappear, delete your account, and go mow the lawn.

Seeking validation on the internet from a thousand anonymous strangers who do not know you is juvenile. Sorry if that felt like a cold slap but this participation award world we now live in is going to hell with the needy masses begging for hugs and back rubs for doing the simplest, inconsequential acts. Yay!!! You brushed your teeth!!! Yay!!! You're the BEST!!!

 

[RubberDuck360]

TBH - mongering is the safest, least disruptive option for males to satisfy their natural sexual urges and acquire peace of mind. Simple.

Spot on sir.

I have long since thought multiple wives would be the safest, least disruptive option, and it makes a lot of practical sense too! But it is considered evil and unacceptable in our culture, so then mongering it is!

 

[Chicagoboy]

I never really gave mongering a second thought until the sex stopped at home. I thought I'd feel guilty but I don't. Im not going out and finding a girlfriend. I just think of it as a business transaction. No commitments or love involved. Just cum and go!