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Is it worth the risk?

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Kingtut1999

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I’m happily married for 27 years. My wife is 57, in great shape and I actually enjoy hanging out with her. Our sex life has always been great. Less sex now because of menopause but when we do have sex, I have no complaints. All that said, I’ve been in and out of the hobby for my entire adult life. I got caught 15 years ago and almost lost her but we worked through it. She forgave me but has not forgotten so every so often, she’ll bring it up especially when I’m traveling for biz.
If I get caught again, my marriage will be over. I have two grown daughters and can’t imagine explaining to them why? So the bottom line is I have everything to lose yet I check this site and others every day. I only partake a few times a year but could easily go once a week. This is my struggle and the why I ask if it’s worth the risk.
 
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ksm111555

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No, it’s not worth the risk.

There is a finite amount of pleasure chemicals in the brain. If you don’t spend them on this, you’ll spend them on something else, preferably something less dangerous. It’s like conservation of energy.

The people who don’t monger aren’t missing anything.
 
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hoofhearted-u?

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Just do it when you travel
You’ll probably enjoy it more since it’s not that frequent any more
You only live once and we all understand your situation
Let’s face it, the small head usually wins over the big head
 
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Kingtut1999 said:
She forgave me but has not forgotten so every so often, she’ll bring it up
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They never forget these transgressions; they’re buried in the subconscious mind, and have a way of resurfacing when you least expect it. So the idea that “she forgave me” is a concept in your mind, not hers
 
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Kingtut1999 said:
I’m happily married for 27 years. My wife is 57, in great shape and I actually enjoy hanging out with her. Our sex life has always been great. Less sex now because of menopause but when we do have sex, I have no complaints. All that said, I’ve been in and out of the hobby for my entire adult life. I got caught 15 years ago and almost lost her but we worked through it. She forgave me but has not forgotten so every so often, she’ll bring it up especially when I’m traveling for biz.
If I get caught again, my marriage will be over. I have two grown daughters and can’t imagine explaining to them why? So the bottom line is I have everything to lose yet I check this site and others every day. I only partake a few times a year but could easily go once a week. This is my struggle and the why I ask if it’s worth the risk.
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I feel like I could've written this post. Without getting too introspective, I think you know it's stupid, reckless and ultimately not worth it, but it fills a void that you haven't filled outside of the "hobby". Appreciate you putting to words what I, and likely others, struggle with often. As I write this, I'm thinking your post would be a good catalyst to shut things down for me. We'll see if, and how long, that lasts. Good luck dude.
 
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Handsome Matt

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Kingtut1999 said:
I’m happily married for 27 years. My wife is 57, in great shape and I actually enjoy hanging out with her. Our sex life has always been great. Less sex now because of menopause but when we do have sex, I have no complaints. All that said, I’ve been in and out of the hobby for my entire adult life. I got caught 15 years ago and almost lost her but we worked through it. She forgave me but has not forgotten so every so often, she’ll bring it up especially when I’m traveling for biz.
If I get caught again, my marriage will be over. I have two grown daughters and can’t imagine explaining to them why? So the bottom line is I have everything to lose yet I check this site and others every day. I only partake a few times a year but could easily go once a week. This is my struggle and the why I ask if it’s worth the risk.
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From what I am reading, it may not be worth the risk for you. Especially if you already got caught once before. I got caught with a girlfriend almost 18 years ago, and that nearly ended my marriage. Later on when we stopped having sex, I started with the AMP scene. It sounds like you are happy with her. If that is the case, I think you have too much to lose. Please be careful.
 
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twotimesone

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Imo, it really depends on you. If you have spoke to your wife and you can't get the satisfaction from her and willing to jeopardize your marriage over this, then yes. Otherwise, don't do it.
 
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whitebreeder

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No. Not only would you lose your wife, you will lose your kids as they’ll want nothing to do with you. You’ll constantly worry about getting caught, and after busting a nut you’ll likely feel guilty. You have way too much to lose, why risk it? Most of us have varying degrees of addiction to this and probably need therapy. I am envious of the family life that you have. Bust a nut to some porn and you'll think more clearly afterwards
 
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I’m in a similar situation. Had been clean (no extramarital sex) for over 20 years. What the trigger was for me, is that I no longer enjoyed having sex with my wife (in large part due to her gaining weight during Covid times and not putting it back off). Sex felt more like a chore than pleasure - it was mercy sex and I was growing resentful. I’m very fit, still have high sex drive and was familiar with AMPs from travel in Asia when I was much younger.

So hit the AMPs, found a SB, and I’m like a kid in a candy store now with all the choice we have in NYC! Making up for twenty years! Frankly, I’m really not sure if I can stop; I’m not sure how this will all end (transition to a sexless marriage, get divorced, go to counseling, something else…)

I do find myself trying to define what I really want out of life, and family and marriage are very important. I “know” they come first, but unlimited amounts of young, hot, Asian pussy somehow keeps rising itself up to the top of that priority list!

If you’re actually enjoying sex with your wife, then I would not recommend going to AMPs (or any type of extras). Maybe you can make an exception on special occasions (when you travel or a double for your bday), but keep it disciplined like that.
 
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slightly older, married 22 years, 2nd marriage. Menopause has basically ended our sex life, children in college, and we spend a lot of time together, working out especially, She is asian, and was my dream girl, still is tbh and if sex life had a heart beat I would not partake, but the genie is out of the bottle!! If your wife is still satisfying you dont partake, guilt will kill you. I travel and love partaking when abroad, also starting to use Flushing, Queens as I am paraniod of someone we know seeing me enter or exit buildings that isnt my office. Be smart, dont mess your life up.
 
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