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"Jewish friendly" provider

Gordanbombay90

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Really naive question... I just saw "Jewish friendly" mentioned in a FBSM provider's profile.

What does this mean?

(I've chatted with one provider who regularly sees orthodox Jewish clients says she does everything up to EXCEPT having the client c*m because that's the only way Orthodox jews can see a provider but not violate their religious promises.. Do NOT quote me on this) could this be it?
 

jim_hatez

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You joined just to ask this? Lmao.

Kidding aside, how can anyone here tell you what she meant? Why not contact her and ask?

The only thing that makes sense to me is letting a minority group know they are not unwelcome. For example, as you know, many providers say "No AA men" in their ads because they are either racist or some other reason they want to claim to not admit they are racist lmao.

I doubt this has to do with the last thing you said. Adultery is forbidden in Judaism as in most religions. Whether or not an orthodox person would finish, having relations outside of a marriage would be forbidden. So although I can't say I am an expert, my gut tells me what that provider told you about Orthodox Jews is not true. I could be wrong though.
 

Lovemyspa

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You joined just to ask this? Lmao.

Kidding aside, how can anyone here tell you what she meant? Why not contact her and ask?

The only thing that makes sense to me is letting a minority group know they are not unwelcome. For example, as you know, many providers say "No AA men" in their ads because they are either racist or some other reason they want to claim to not admit they are racist lmao.

I doubt this has to do with the last thing you said. Adultery is forbidden in Judaism as in most religions. Whether or not an orthodox person would finish, having relations outside of a marriage would be forbidden. So although I can't say I am an expert, my gut tells me what that provider told you about Orthodox Jews is not true. I could be wrong though.
I been told by my Jewish friends that for Orthodox Jews, sex with a non Jewish woman is not considered adultery.
 

jim_hatez

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I been told by my Jewish friends that for Orthodox Jews, sex with a non Jewish woman is not considered adultery.
I know a Rabbi, I will ask him. But I think this is totally false. It's illogical, because the commandment is "Thou shalt not commit adultery" there is no asterisk next to it that says "Goyim are OK" lmao.
 

oldhorndog53

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There was an episode of Curb Your Enthisiasm, where Larry David showed up at a hotel for an assignation with his Orthodox Jewish dry cleaner (Gina Gershon). He brought a sheet with a hole cut in it.
 

Lovemyspa

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I know a Rabbi, I will ask him. But I think this is totally false. It's illogical, because the commandment is "Thou shalt not commit adultery" there is no asterisk next to it that says "Goyim are OK" lmao.
I would appreciate knowing what your Rabbi would say on this.
 

jim_hatez

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Wow, did not know that. Good thing I am Catholic
Hahah yes a good Catholic who mongers... lmao. Pretty sure Catholics also have a rule about this but hey, why not stick your head in the sand over here with the rest of us, haha.

So I got my answer, as I expected, it's false.

7th commandment says no to adultery. And if you are not married, if you have sexual relations (and again these are strict interpretations) outside of marriage you have to offer to marry or compensate equal to a marriage (i.e. a session fee wouldn't cover this)

It is encouraged that husbands and wives have sex, but sperm is considered sacred and thus should not be spilled unless there is a chance for procreation. A man could have anal sex with his wife, but if he ejaculates, that's against their teachings because it's impossible to get pregnant so thus it's "wasting" the sperm's potential.

Maybe that's where the "it's ok if you don't finish" comes from . But again, it's out of context, and not accurate because technically the sex itself is forbidden outside of marriage, and furthermore - let's be honest - most guys here are married. Which makes mongering adultery by almost any definition out there.

End of the day... people never follow all these rules, they follow what they want and ignore the rest, this happens in all religions, and I would guess, for Orthodox people as well. Although since religion is so much bigger part of their life, probably they follow more rules than most I would imagine.
 

MountainLion

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Hahah

Maybe that's where the "it's ok if you don't finish" comes from . But again, it's out of context, and not accurate because technically the sex itself is forbidden outside of marriage, and furthermore - let's be honest - most guys here are married. Which makes mongering adultery by almost any definition out there.
this seems to be a plausible explanation, not that it is allowed but why some ALLOW THEMSELVES and trying to tell themselves that it’s ok
 
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