this seems to be a plausible explanation, not that it is allowed but why some ALLOW THEMSELVES and trying to tell themselves that it’s ok
I am not at all disparaging anyone's beliefs but let's be honest, many of these rules were made 1000s of years ago for specific purposes. Doesn't mean the rules are bad but in modern times most people who are religious pick and choose what aspects of their faiths' rules to believe in.
Which is technically not how it's supposed to work, but that's the reality of modern times me thinks...