Not quite what was asked, but I was in an all chinese spot and the masseuse kept talking about me marrying her (for green card) and how she would be a great wife, housekeeper and I would get paid. It was very uncomfortable so I kept dodging the conversation. But, it kept going on and on. When I finally got out of there an older guy stopped me and said that it was a bad idea and I shouldn't do it. Was very awkward. Maybe that old guy is one of you here who overheard.