Libido/abstinence prior to visit

[woodpecker]

How many days do you abstain prior to a visit? What's optimal. Any other useful suggestions along these lines?

 

[Zippy17]

Totaly depends on the person and what's normal for you. I normally rub one out twice a day, on average, and am always good for 2 pops in an hour if the girl is worth (me) seeing in the first place; so it's not an issue. But sometimes, if I know I'm planning on seeing someone who clicks with me, I'll purposely abstain for a couple of days beforehand, just because it's that much more satisfying a nut. One day isn't too difficult; two days is harder and three days is about my limit, by which time I'm like one of those elephant bulls in musth, with constant semi-wood and if I see anything that catches my eye, dripping precum on first sight.

 

[ATLguy]

How many days do you abstain prior to a visit? What's optimal. Any other useful suggestions along these lines?

I usually rub one out about 30 minutes before my session. Especially if I know it is going to be a one-shot deal.

 

[daffyc0ck]

i usually smoke weed a few hours before, seems to give me more stamina

 

[Warrior Geek]

Go see a urologist and have your testosterone levels measured. If they are on the lower side of normal you will feel much better if you get TRT to optimize your levels

 

[Johnsnowbyte]

Totaly depends on the person and what's normal for you. I normally rub one out twice a day, on average, and am always good for 2 pops in an hour if the girl is worth (me) seeing in the first place; so it's not an issue. But sometimes, if I know I'm planning on seeing someone who clicks with me, I'll purposely abstain for a couple of days beforehand, just because it's that much more satisfying a nut. One day isn't too difficult; two days is harder and three days is about my limit, by which time I'm like one of those elephant bulls in musth, with constant semi-wood and if I see anything that catches my eye, dripping precum on first sight.

Same here, went 5 days before seeing Victoria H and it was well worth the wait

 

[Zippy17]

I think I've made it 4 days on occasion, but that's definitely my absolute limit...

 

[manfrenjentsen]

I was on a business trip many years ago to Waikiki area and I think I saw 3 providers in 8 days and had no problem with performance. I think the excitement and anticipation had a lot to do with my voluminous loads.

 

[BuzzerBeater]

Prior to vacays i usually abstain for as much as 2 weeks. Well a while back, my pre-trip "buildup plan" backfired. i had blue balls when i touched down & found out that i left my testosterone in the TSA security check bin. Day one, i was reduced to getting numbers, eating, swimming & resting.. On day two, Ms. Rivera came outta the bullpen to relieve me. then i hit the showers on her beautiful naturals.

"Oh, whatta feeling" - Toyota

 

[DavidGLD]

I was on a business trip many years ago to Waikiki area and I think I saw 3 providers in 8 days and had no problem with performance. I think the excitement and anticipation had a lot to do with my voluminous loads.

This hobby may take the load off.

 

[Chief5665]

For you older guys, the wait in between sessions is irrelevant to performance. I find there may be a lot of factors in deciding my level of mojo, but I can be low energy one day and full throttle the next with no explanation and no change in diet, sleep, etc.

 

[Bech]

As you age, T drops of course. In my 60s I find that I rarely feel the urge to masturbate. It’s kind of great to finally not feel like a slave to my urges, frankly.

When I see amp girls it’s sometimes been a week without cumming and the orgasm is very satisfying.
I think the medical industry has drummed up this “low T” diagnosis to make a shitload of money off insecure older guys, or guys who are desperate to relive their glory days.

But as others have said, it’s totally different for each person.

 

[ATLguy]

For you older guys, the wait in between sessions is irrelevant to performance. I find there may be a lot of factors in deciding my level of mojo, but I can be low energy one day and full throttle the next with no explanation and no change in diet, sleep, etc.

"Older guys"?? I'm 65 in a few months and serve up 3 cups in my hour session. Thankfully I have found someone I have an arrangement with that is accommodating.

 

[Chief5665]

"Older guys"?? I'm 65 in a few months and serve up 3 cups in my hour session. Thankfully I have found someone I have an arrangement with that is accommodating.

Hats off to you my brother.