So I stopped dping the hobby months ago and since then I’ve been thinking about how do I keep this hidden from eventual gf's/wives without the feeling of shame/guilt of lying about my past? Idk if any of you have ever told your partners but I personally don't think I could ever tell a partner that secret from my past, how do you guys do it?
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Lying about it
- Thread starter Leaf3035
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Based on reading through similar threads on this board, the major consensus appears to be to keep your mouth 100% shut.
Don’t tell anyone, not even your good “trusted” friends. All it takes is a few drinks and your buddy starts running his mouth. Or even worse, mentions it to their partner.
And in your case, I’d suggest that you don’t tell your future wife or girlfriend. If it’s in your past, that’s not a concern of theirs.
Don’t tell anyone, not even your good “trusted” friends. All it takes is a few drinks and your buddy starts running his mouth. Or even worse, mentions it to their partner.
And in your case, I’d suggest that you don’t tell your future wife or girlfriend. If it’s in your past, that’s not a concern of theirs.
If the girl loves you and wants to be with you it won't matter. I told my wife straight up when we first started dating that I have a criminal record. I have a sports gambling habit and the women (PROS) were a regular occurrence for me. I was 32 when I had this conversation I told her this because she would have found out and I thought that would have been worse not hearing it from me directly. She had every opportunity to walk away from me at that point but she didn't. Women are more forgiving if your upfront with them. We all have some baggage.We just celebrated our 7th year together.
Never discuss with anyone - especially a love interest. No woman ever wants to hear about other women in your life.
They may act like they do, and they may ask you questions but they don’t want to hear about it or know about other women.
Talking about this or other women will only bring out their insecurities regarding themselves and their relationship with you.
Never mention it to anyone.
They may act like they do, and they may ask you questions but they don’t want to hear about it or know about other women.
Talking about this or other women will only bring out their insecurities regarding themselves and their relationship with you.
Never mention it to anyone.
