Making friends on here

[caratran]

Hey all. I almost always start my posts with a background story. I’m a Philly dude. The forums over there are not bad, but definitely not as active as here. Was usually just a post here and there to retain my private status. One day I decide to be more active but I got some backlash and banned. Learned from my mistake. Went back to being underground. Got a taste of NYC when some of your ladies went to visit me down there. Started really exploring more NYC girls this past year and I love it.

Now I am becoming more active, some fans, and some haters. But what I want to know about is your experiences with making friends with mongers, or turning friends into mongers. Do you hobby with your real life friends? That is something I refuse to do, but how does it work out? Fun, awkward, do it repeatedly or just once?

What I do plan on doing soon is a double with another monger who I befriended online here. Im not nervous about it, but I’m not dumb about it either. We will both do our due diligence upon meeting. But any success stories out there? Do you remain friends? Just comongers? Or one and done?

 

[Michael_Choo]

I like to befriend those who don't review the same provider 3x in 2 weeks.

 

[Raypapi]

I put my right hand man into mongering. He was a lil hesitant at first but he finally took the plunge. Then I took him to a spot in jerz with all latinas and he was hooked. Already a savage with civilian woman and ended up turning into a savage with providers haha. Easy access with no work having to be put in. Simple transaction. Gotta love it

 

[이 회장님]

I met a lot of great people in this site.

Every member I have met here, we
met over lunch or dinner. We introduce ourselves on a first name basis and talk about what we do for work, sports, etc and then the rest is about mongering. lol

And if we hit it off, then we go to an amp, Piano Bar or a room salon.

The amp girls and MMSs look surprised when they see us enter together. “You know each other?!?” lol

 

[Tifosigreko]

I once had a friend who was a few years older than me and we would occasionally monger together. He and I had both been doing it on our own individually for years before we really got friendly. But in all honesty we were just very different people - he was also starting to drop hints about our shared hobby along mutual friends (aka “hey Tifosigreko we gonna go do ‘our thing’ later?”) that led to awkward moments. But that’s as close as I’ve come to having a ‘friend’ in the hobby. Although some members of the community here seem cool, I would never meet up with anyone from here voluntarily or reveal personal identifying info about myself. If I pass by other mongers in a venue I keep quiet and avoid eye contact. Absolute privacy is a must for me.

 

[Enkidu_10]

I like to befriend those who don't review the same provider 3x in 2 weeks.

 

[The REAL Bxbrown]

I met a lot of great people in this site.

Every member I have met here, we
met over lunch or dinner. We introduce ourselves on a first name basis and talk about what we do for work, sports, etc and then the rest is about mongering. lol

And if we hit it off, then we go to an amp, Piano Bar or a room salon.

The amp girls and MMSs look surprised when they see us enter together. “You know each other?!?” lol

NOT true, you still called me BX, but in all fairness that's because I kept calling you by your old name, it just felt weird to me calling you by your real name after calling your by your username for so many years.

Funny thing, the Chairman asked one popular K girl who I really was, but she refused to tell him anything other than saying "oh, my Spanish guy" but she wouldn't give him any other details. That's loyalty you can't buy (she's probably reading this right now lol)

Another funny thing, one of my former Chinese ATF's was pissed I met the Chairman in person and said "are you friends with that fuckin Korean? I don't want you being like him or I won't see you anymore, I don't want you to change." Yes, boys, these girls fuckin talk about us. I actually heard about the Chairman through Wechat news and Kakaotalk news years before I ever met him in person and now we talk all the time, he's like my big bro and put a lot of things in perspective for me over the last few years so my experiences have been good. Thanks bro!

 

[Michael_Choo]

NOT true, you still called me BX, but in all fairness that's because I kept calling you by your old name, it just felt weird to me calling you by your real name after calling your by your username for so many years.

Funny thing, the Chairman asked one popular K girl who I really was, but she refused to tell him anything other than saying "oh, my Spanish guy" but she wouldn't give him any other details. That's loyalty you can't buy (she's probably reading this right now lol)

Another funny thing, one of my former Chinese ATF's was pissed I met the Chairman in person and said "are you friends with that fuckin Korean? I don't want you being like him or I won't see you anymore, I don't want you to change." Yes, boys, these girls fuckin talk about us. I actually heard about the Chairman through Wechat news and Kakaotalk news years before I ever met him in person and now we talk all the time, he's like my big bro and put a lot of things in perspective for me over the last few years so my experiences have been good. Thanks bro!

Get a room, you two.

And let me watch.

 

[Ankle_Socks]

I like to befriend those who don't review the same provider 3x in 2 weeks.

 

[Johnny Blaze]

met a few people on here and other boards. Some lasted and some didn't. But it was always a fun time banging out some chicks in the same room and shit.

 

[BrettKavanaugh]

I like to befriend those who don't review the same provider 3x in 2 weeks.

In fairness those 3 reviews had a narrative arc to them, and were orders of magnitude more entertaining and illuminating than 80% of Sara's reviews. By now we all know the basics of how a Sara session will go. Nobody is changing anybody's go/no decision at this point.

 

[solomon_456]

I put my right hand man into mongering. He was a lil hesitant at first but he finally took the plunge. Then I took him to a spot in jerz with all latinas and he was hooked. Already a savage with civilian woman and ended up turning into a savage with providers haha. Easy access with no work having to be put in. Simple transaction. Gotta love it

Are you hiring?

 

[Every20]

Curious. Not that "we" should be anti-social, but what, if any, are the benefits of a combo-monger? Seems like it would complicate the event more than necessary. And leaves more of an opportunity to get found out in my mind.

 

[Raypapi]

Are you hiring?

Dm me your resume. I’m Sure I can get you in for an interview

 

[Ankle_Socks]

A vast majority of the guys here are deeply ashamed of this, notice when you run into them leaving or entering an establishment, they either suddenly become interested in their shoelaces, some will even pretend to tie said laces, while wearing sandals or loafers.
The rest suddenly picked up the staring at the wall/ watching paint dry hobby

 

[Tifosigreko]

A vast majority of the guys here are deeply ashamed of this, notice when you run into them leaving or entering an establishment, they either suddenly become interested in their shoelaces, some will even pretend to tie said laces, while wearing sandals or loafers.
The rest suddenly picked up the staring at the wall/ watching paint dry hobby

I am 100% the former, ‘shoe tie-er’ as you describe. Would not want any acquaintances to know I do this - even if they too partook

 

[Enkidu_10]

A vast majority of the guys here are deeply ashamed of this, notice when you run into them leaving or entering an establishment, they either suddenly become interested in their shoelaces, some will even pretend to tie said laces, while wearing sandals or loafers.
The rest suddenly picked up the staring at the wall/ watching paint dry hobby

When the other person I run into is visibly anxious personally makes me feel way more comfortable. Also they usually are more put together lol

I find it more awkward when I'm being walked out and having a conversation with the provider and mms and there is a guy sitting on the coach staring silently at us. I continue the conversation but in the back of my mind I'm wondering if he is about to bang who I was just with (not that it really makes a difference). They are usually older and/or larger lol.

 

[Beacon]

I like to keep things simple and enjoy doing activities on my own, so I would not be adverse to mongering with others, I prefer to keep to myself. I have friends who indulge but have never gone with them and have talked to some friends who seemed interested but lack the conviction to follow through. Although if I ever embark on another fivesome I may need a tag team partner to swap in when I’m feeling drained.

 

[southernheat]

Dm me your resume. I’m Sure I can get you in for an interview

unsure if you were joking or not, but I recently shifted to NYC and am looking for work if you really are hiring lol

 

[john65261]

I like to keep things simple and enjoy doing activities on my own, so I would not be adverse to mongering with others, I prefer to keep to myself. I have friends who indulge but have never gone with them and have talked to some friends who seemed interested but lack the conviction to follow through. Although if I ever embark on another fivesome I may need a tag team partner to swap in when I’m feeling drained.

Oh man, if you're offering...I would not mind that at all. LOL