Mamasan matchmaker..?

[dasgoon]

Rocking the boat again,

Have you guys ever had mamasan sit down with you and she tries to fix you up with one of her girls...

If so, did you do it

Hypothetically, would you do it.

 

[dbraid]

LOL. they are always hunting.

 

[dbraid]

lots of threads on here about the benefits and dangers of attempting a relationship with a provider. no matter who the matchmaker is.

 

[wil1985]

Is the mamasan doing it out of the goodness of her heart or is she trying to make a buck?

 

[jase87]

You

Rocking the boat again,

Have you guys ever had mamasan sit down with you and she tries to fix you up with one of her girls...

If so, did you do it

Hypothetically, would you do it.

You must be a billionaire

 

[dbraid]

You
You must be a billionaire

Most girls are really just in it for the money, especially in the Chinese culture. I mean it stands to reason, look how you met them LOL. Plenty of girls in whatever bad situations these providers landed in are still waiting tables or doing nails or what have you, and not turning tricks. Once they’ve decided to go for the money, it’s hard for them to stop and hard for them to judge you any other way. So if someone wants to set you up on a date outside the spa why not? Get some nookie and pay for it. Your reward is doing it in a more relaxed place. But a set up for marriage? You’re either fooling yourself or her. (And if you fool her it’s immigration fraud which doesn’t sound fun either)

 

[wil1985]

well I never had Mamasan try to fix me up but last night I had a girl I see on a regular (that I met from here) told me she was single. I think she see me as a meal ticket in to this country. She told me she's been here only for a year and wanted to learn English. She does nails and that during the day. One of the questions she asked is if I was in finance? I know I treated them nice with good tips and I always keep my appointments. Wow its like your seeing my future man. Time for a new spot.

If she has been here for a year she is probably illegal and looking for a passport ....no offense larry

 

[solomon_456]

That’s why I don’t tip too generously, lmao

 

[discovernyc]

Its usually for a greencard