After realizing how expensive it is for females to look pretty for us (clothes, purses, jewelry, hair, mani pedi, workout classes...) and compete with other girls for our attention I believe males should not complain when spending money on girls: it is like we are tranfering money to them for them to look good for us to be happy and also impress people in our surroundings... So, it like us investing in our wellbeing when we treat girls and pay tabs