Married or Single or dating

[AutomaticSlim]

Completely and totally unattached and have been for my entire life.
I've only ever been with providers.
I have sometimes lied and told providers that I am married when they asked for my phone number.
These are usually the mediocre looking ones I consider "one and dones" / "pump & dumps".
I suppose sometimes I am too nice and they don't realize I have no interesting seeing them again.
I tell them I can't give out my number because "my wife" checks my phone.
I'll only share numbers if the girl is my type and I find her extremely attractive.

 

[dball789]

I am married. My wife is the best in the world in everything except sex. She just doesn't enjoy it. She knows about my past with hookers and call girls before we met and got married. Therapist called it healthy as neither one of us wants to get divorced it's turned into an open arrangement. One girl a month a bottle of lube and a hustler magazine.

When I see a pro I tell her in advance no oils or scents. I usually run to the gym before I go back home. I refuse to disrespect my wife even though she is aware of what is going on she just doesn't know who I see or when I go.

 

[romh31]

Fantastic question. I am in it for the variety. I love the sex but beyond that, its the thrill and getting to experience new people. Its 100% fun without the baggage and drama of dating. Dating and responsibility (chores, bills, in laws) takes away the excitement. Brings some excitement to the dull grind and blandness of suburban life

Same for me

 

[Netlord34]

Completely and totally unattached and have been for my entire life.
I've only ever been with providers.
I have sometimes lied and told providers that I am married when they asked for my phone number.
These are usually the mediocre looking ones I consider "one and dones" / "pump & dumps".
I suppose sometimes I am too nice and they don't realize I have no interesting seeing them again.
I tell them I can't give out my number because "my wife" checks my phone.
I'll only share numbers if the girl is my type and I find her extremely attractive.

Well done. I commend you. Fantastic strategy and courage for staying unattached. You are my hero. Thanks for the comment.

 

[Netlord34]

I am married. My wife is the best in the world in everything except sex. She just doesn't enjoy it. She knows about my past with hookers and call girls before we met and got married. Therapist called it healthy as neither one of us wants to get divorced it's turned into an open arrangement. One girl a month a bottle of lube and a hustler magazine.

When I see a pro I tell her in advance no oils or scents. I usually run to the gym before I go back home. I refuse to disrespect my wife even though she is aware of what is going on she just doesn't know who I see or when I go.

Thanks for the reply. I really appreciate hearing stories like this. I truly believe that this balance can be healthy. Loving a woman (married or committed) but still have very real and human needs.

 

[Stpj123]

I need to retire before I get caught

 

[Netlord34]

I need to retire before I get caught

Lol its the sad truth. But its hard to get out of your system forever.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Well done. I commend you. Fantastic strategy and courage for staying unattached. You are my hero. Thanks for the comment.

Jeez...going by your join up date, I guess you are rather new here.
I'm actually quite miserable about being single and complain all the time.
But...I do realize it could be much, much worse -- like being divorced, paying alimony & child support and being in financial ruin.
So, yeah, it's not so bad.

 

[Warmhands]

Been divorced 10 years. Dated on and off but there is a lot of crazy out there so those don't last long. In any case this fills a physical need when there is no woman in my life, which is often. But the bright side is I don't have to put up with anyone's crap. So I got that going for me.

 

[RotVic]

For me…I’m married with an “ok” sex life but it’s on a decline….I have 2 side chicks that I creampie…one is taking the pill, and the other girl got her Ovaries removed, and we are “so far” STD free, even though I slow down on the mongering…i still do it from time to time…just because out of curiosity if there’s a new hot provider in area… Other than that,
Sometimes I’ll visit a provider I really liked in the pass, “not too many left of that unfortunately”

 

[Netlord34]

Jeez...going by your join up date, I guess you are rather new here.
I'm actually quite miserable about being single and complain all the time.
But...I do realize it could be much, much worse -- like being divorced, paying alimony & child support and being in financial ruin.
So, yeah, it's not so bad.

Wise words. Well said. Been in the sport about 10 years. New to this platform.

 

[Netlord34]

Been divorced 10 years. Dated on and off but there is a lot of crazy out there so those don't last long. In any case this fills a physical need when there is no woman in my life, which is often. But the bright side is I don't have to put up with anyone's crap. So I got that going for me.

To me that is the best part. I got so tired of the dating scene, paying for everything, the drama etc. and the headache.

 

[Netlord34]

For me…I’m married with an “ok” sex life but it’s on a decline….I have 2 side chicks that I creampie…one is taking the pill, and the other girl got her Ovaries removed, and we are “so far” STD free, even though I slow down on the mongering…i still do it from time to time…just because out of curiosity if there’s a new hot provider in area… Other than that,
Sometimes I’ll visit a provider I really liked in the pass, “not too many left of that unfortunately”[/QUOTE
Very cool. I hear ya. I engage in mongering often. I would love to form a connection with a few “regulars” but right now i love a new girl every time. Its like a fortune cookie, once you enter that door, the experience is novel. (For better or worse)

 

[Marek90]

To me that is the best part. I got so tired of the dating scene, paying for everything, the drama etc. and the headache.

I feel like a lot of mongers are the ultimate MGTOW (I don't mean it in a bad way).
I just don't have enough motivation to date mediocre and average looking girls anymore. Dunno if it's a bad luck with Asian ladies or the fact that I'm only 5'5. Anyway, I think this hobby gives me access to the girls that I would never be able to sleep with. Especially, given that I love Asian women.
It's good to have available sex with gorgeous girls just a text away.

 

[Netlord34]

I feel like a lot of mongers are the ultimate MGTOW (I don't mean it in a bad way).
I just don't have enough motivation to date mediocre and average looking girls anymore. Dunno if it's a bad luck with Asian ladies or the fact that I'm only 5'5. Anyway, I think this hobby gives me access to the girls that I would never be able to sleep with. Especially, given that I love Asian women.
It's good to have available sex with gorgeous girls just a text away.

Very true. I think your statement summarizes many of our beliefs. Mongoring gets right to the point.

 

[Warmhands]

To me that is the best part. I got so tired of the dating scene, paying for everything, the drama etc. and the headache.

Yeah. If you go based on cost, mongering is also easier on your wallet. The ultimate in what they call self-care nowadays. Lol.

 

[Travelmike88]

So true!

 

[Netlord34]

Yeah. If you go based on cost, mongering is also easier on your wallet. The ultimate in what they call self-care nowadays. Lol.

Certainly this is the “self care” i need. : )

 

[Michael_Choo]

Was married briefly, then got into this world. My goal is to buy a small building in the city and operate a dorm for young female entrepreneurs / my sex commune. Free rent and health insurance. You get "promoted" and return to the world when you turn 24. Gotta one up Leo.

 

[Netlord34]

Was married briefly, then got into this world. My goal is to buy a small building in the city and operate a dorm for young female entrepreneurs / my sex commune. Free rent and health insurance. You get "promoted" and return to the world when you turn 24. Gotta one up Leo.

This sounds like the next big “Shark Tank” idea. Sending you my investment money now. : )