Mental Health and Mongering

[Bushmasta]

I met up with one of my favorite providers today who is one of the nicest people that I know even outside this hobby. After the session she mentioned that she was going to warm up some leftovers and I was welcome to wait and grab some to go.

Long story short, she psycho analyzed me and also reminded me that today is International Men’s Day. I always knew it existed but it’s not like any of my girlfriends ever did the whole Stake & Blowjob breakfast thing for me to circle this date on my calendar. It’s just another 24hrs to me.

So in honor of this special day for the bros, here’s a wholesome meme for my fellow mongers that lift 6 days a week and monger through the pain.

 

[DrakeHeyman]

The thread is two years old, the importance of discussing mental health remains constant. It's great that you had a meaningful conversation during your encounter with your provider, and it's a reminder that such discussions can happen in unexpected moments. If you or anyone else is interested in exploring more about mental health, you can always visit https://www.mentalhealth.com/disorder/specific-phobia/ergophobia for valuable insights and resources. Thank you for sharing your experience and the wholesome meme. Let's continue to encourage open conversations about mental health, no matter when the discussion takes place.

 

[이 회장님]

My mental health will be much better if the College Football Playoff Committee shows more respect to Alabama and the New York sports teams start winning. lol

 

[AutomaticSlim]

I am taking a metal wellness break currently.
I take them every 3 or 4 months.
I get jaded and need a 2 to 3 week break 3 or 4 times year.
Currently, these Japanese girls have me spoiled.
But yeah...I need few weeks break 3 to 4 times a year...

 

[rigandine]

mens issues = these women aint fuckin and suckin enough and cost too damn much

 

[Johnny Blaze]

My only goal in life is banging as many Asian women as possible so there is no stopping or cutting back...only doubling down.

 

[massiveloads]

Girls look down at customers as losers who cant get girls on their own without paying and falling for their fake gfe attitude

Mongers look down at girls who work as only being able to make money sucking cocks and getting cum in their body

We are all fucked up and doing things like this only makes it worse, whether we admit it or not. One day we'll wake up and realize how much we regret burning up our money, time, and prime years

 

[Vicksnasalspray]

Girls look down at customers as losers who cant get girls on their own without paying and falling for their fake gfe attitude

Mongers look down at girls who work as only being able to make money sucking cocks and getting cum in their body

We are all fucked up and doing things like this only makes it worse, whether we admit it or not. One day we'll wake up and realize how much we regret burning up our money, time, and prime years

he said " prime years"

 

[Johnny Blaze]

I look up to them when I am in cg and down on them in mish and from behind I am spanking Asian booty.

 

[PnzrGen]

Ive been a heavy drinker for the last 15 or so years of my life. Havent drank in over a week. It is very difficult but at the end of each day I feel a little better and have a very clear sense of my life. Anyone struggling with alcohol addiction do yourself a favor and dry out for a few days. Im trying to stay California sober until Thanksgiving…. But as time goes by I may stay sober for life. I havent gone to AA yet but I know many people who worked the program and are better for it. I am lucky to have a large friend a family group that has helped me on this journey Im taking. Good luck to all you gentlemen out there. God speed

 

[Nylnlst]

Ah addiction, although ive never had an alcohol or drug addiction (never really have done much of both throughout my life) but my self diagnosis is addiction to woman and the sexual vibe they offer, ive lost a great deal in my life over it, especially an immediate family and finances. And i dont want to stop, its very gratifying and def consumes my thoughts. The devil in me says more more more, the angel in me says stop right now !!
But i just cant

 

[Sintax]

Dopamine is a bitch.

 

[NycHentaiguy]

Started this hobby like a year ago?Eh I’ve use to monger once a month into twice a month and sometimes into weekly sometimes even twice in the same night. I remember seeing Mariko one night and I’m like I needed more and went to see Kylie.Lol I took November as incel month to reconfigure. End of the day it’s all up to you.. but I’m also going to Japan soon hahaha.

 

[herbstriker]

Girls look down at customers as
Mongers look down at girls who work s

I see it a little different. We are very similar and end up in the same place. In the old bar days For every woman trading their body for drugs there is a man trading drugs for affection. 2 side same coin.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

. One day we'll wake up and realize how much we regret burning up our money, time, and prime years

Nah...It's only regrettable if you could have gotten a 8 or above. For all my complaining, I'd rather bang attractive young providers than to have to date settled down with a 5 or 6, which is what I would have had to settle for. And she'd be and an old bag now.

 

[Nylnlst]

Nah...It's only regrettable if you could have gotten a 8 or above. For all my complaining, I'd rather bang attractive young providers than to have to date settled down with a 5 or 6, which is what I would have had to settle for. And she'd be and an old bag now.

Kind of true imo im with an 8 or a 9 SO who does alot for me in civie life, everytime i finish with a provider im riddled with alot of guilt though, but the reason i do this is the addiction to wild woman.

 

[beatnik]

Ive been a heavy drinker for the last 15 or so years of my life. Havent drank in over a week. It is very difficult but at the end of each day I feel a little better and have a very clear sense of my life. Anyone struggling with alcohol addiction do yourself a favor and dry out for a few days. Im trying to stay California sober until Thanksgiving…. But as time goes by I may stay sober for life. I havent gone to AA yet but I know many people who worked the program and are better for it. I am lucky to have a large friend a family group that has helped me on this journey Im taking. Good luck to all you gentlemen out there. God speed

Just for today…don’t drink. Don’t worry about tomorrow, today. When tomorrow comes, just for today try not drinking.

Good for you, man. Glad to read you have a lot of support.

 

[acheron72]

All jokes aside, a lot of men struggle with mental health trauma, which comes in many forms; and as men, we often tend to hide it, suffer in silence and fight our demons alone. Even those who are successful in various aspects of life. It doesn't help that there is still a lot of unwarranted stigma about this in society.

I was a championship level athlete in college, with coaches and professors all saying I had a bright future in the sport; but with a lot of arm twisting from my Asian parents, I ended up giving it all up to walk one of the "traditionally preferred" Asian professional paths that my parents wanted. Even though I'm damn good at what I do, achieved what few at my age have, and built a good and respectable career and reputation, leaving who I was behind in order to make my parents happy wrecked my sense of self and sent me down a very self-destructive path for over a decade. Hid it from friends, family, colleagues, etc., who all thought I was doing awesome; but inside, I was empty.

A relatively recent health crisis made me realize I needed help, and go out and get it. With treatment, I've been steadily reclaiming and rediscovering the spark I once had, and living a better, more satisfying, life because of it.

So if any of you are facing any sort of mental health trauma, please know that you aren't alone, that it isn't too late, and that help is available.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Ive been a heavy drinker for the last 15 or so years of my life. Havent drank in over a week. It is very difficult but at the end of each day I feel a little better and have a very clear sense of my life. Anyone struggling with alcohol addiction do yourself a favor and dry out for a few days. Im trying to stay California sober until Thanksgiving…. But as time goes by I may stay sober for life. I havent gone to AA yet but I know many people who worked the program and are better for it. I am lucky to have a large friend a family group that has helped me on this journey Im taking. Good luck to all you gentlemen out there. God speed

Good luck.
I've been at it since BEFORE I started mongering.
I even used to keep a pint of booze in my car when I was in college, and would go out to the parking lot to drink when I had a break between classes.
The longest I went dry was 5 months in 2021.
I am trying to stick to only weekends recently, and beyond that, only when I go out.
I've slipped up bad the past few weeks, though.
Hope you can stick with it.
It's great you have support. Lean on your family for help all you can.
I've always gone it alone and I suppose that's one of the reasons I keep slipping up.
Take care, good sir.

 

[이 회장님]

All jokes aside, a lot of men struggle with mental health trauma, which comes in many forms; and as men, we often tend to hide it, suffer in silence and fight our demons alone. Even those who are successful in various aspects of life. It doesn't help that there is still a lot of unwarranted stigma about this in society.

I was a championship level athlete in college, with coaches and professors all saying I had a bright future in the sport; but with a lot of arm twisting from my Asian parents, I ended up giving it all up to walk one of the "traditionally preferred" Asian professional paths that my parents wanted. Even though I'm damn good at what I do, achieved what few at my age have, and built a good and respectable career and reputation, leaving who I was behind in order to make my parents happy wrecked my sense of self and sent me down a very self-destructive path for over a decade. Hid it from friends, family, colleagues, etc., who all thought I was doing awesome; but inside, I was empty.

A relatively recent health crisis made me realize I needed help, and go out and get it. With treatment, I've been steadily reclaiming and rediscovering the spark I once had, and living a better, more satisfying, life because of it.

So if any of you are facing any sort of mental health trauma, please know that you aren't alone, that it isn't too late, and that help is available.

I’m glad to hear that you seeked help and now living a better and more satisfying life.

Asian parents can be very hard on us. My late father would always tell me since I was a kid, “You’ll figure it out.”

I’ve met several members in this site who are in their mid to late 20s, have a great career and make very good money but I’m worried about their mental well-being. I told them to take breaks because sooner or later, they will get burned out and have a mental breakdown.