Am I in the minority here or what? Personally, it’s crazy to just show up. What if the person you think might be available isn’t or not even there that day. Making an appointment via phone or text means you are scheduled for a certain time (for the most part). Twice recently two of you guys showed up on two separate occasions at local NNJ spots, ringing the bell, knocking on the door, and hanging around til you decide to leave. Both times it so happened that I was ready to leave but the Mms in charge didn’t like the idea of mongers suddenly showing up. 2nd time the Mms said to me “this guy never calls...just shows up” with such disdain. I just don’t get it.