A little background here. I have 2 ATF s that I have been seeing for years. One of them came back to work after COVID part time but eventually got out of the business. We still keep in touch and once in a while meet up for lunch. She has a friend that owns/manages a spa in Bayside. Every so often I’ll call my AFT and she arranges to meet me at her friends place for a massage session. I like to think of it as having an on call provider. I pay the house fee and typically tip a C note for the session. Fast forward to last week. I make arrangements to meet up and when I got there I decided to go with an extra 1/2hour for a foot rub. I pay the $100 house fee ( $60 + $ 40) and off we go. By the way my ATF collects the house fee . With maybe 10 minutes left for the first hour she starts the foot rub. Next thing I hear is her and the MMS talking. Then my AFT tells me that someone had an appointment and they need the room. I thought that was odd because I paid for an hour and a half but whatever the mixup I got dressed and handed my ATF $ 60 and told her to take $ 40 from the house fee since I only was there for 1 hour. She got really nasty and tells me I owe her more tip. Rather than argue I asked the MMS for my $ 40 back and she tells me my ATF only paid her for 1 hour. When I confronted my ATF she tells me the extra $ 40 is a tip for the foot rub and I still owe her more tip for the “massage”I guess I’m supposed to pay for time I didn’t get to use and tip for a foot rub I didn’t get. Needless to say I just put on my jacket and walked out. Now she’s my FATF. (Former ATF) So for any of you fellow mongers who think you have a special relationship or connection with a provider remember it’s all about the money
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Never Forget It’s All About Money
- Thread starter mistaclubdays
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I met a provider several years ago, BP girl, really fine, 19yo, half black, half italian, looked puerto rican, nice slim body but with a really nice ass. Gia Paige type of body. Working out of that motel by plane view park. When I run into something like that, I'm going to repeat until something better comes along. Anyhow, aside her rate, I always hooked her up with a nice tip. My terms for these girls is simple, I'll pay them their 1 hour rate so long as I get to bust two loads within that hour. Anyhow, for whatever reason this one day, I was struggling on that 2nd round and out of nowhere, she became a clockwatcher talking about I have 5 minutes left. Five minutes came (No pun intended) and went and I was still at it. I was pretty close so I said to her, give me 5-10 minutes, I'll be good. She declined. Now.........I get it that she may have had someone booked and she wanted to clean up, etc, etc, but if I can look past that one time she left me hanging and didn't pick up her phone when I was at the motel at 4am after treking it from the boogie down via the q44 and a whole 7 train and walk from rosie, past northern and all the way to that motel because her "Phone died", then the next fella can look past having to wait an extra 10 minutes. Needless to say, that was the last time that I saw her.
That said, I've met two providers where it wasn't all about the money. I'm in my mid 40's, my first encounter with a pro was in South America. I was 14, she was like 26. I've been doing this for a while. One of those providers I had to stop seeing back in 2012 'cause I got back with my girlfriend. Lost contact. The one I currently see now is the 2nd. I pay her a modest/fair hourly rate, she stays with me the entire short stay each and every time. We drink, we talk, we chill. It ain't gonna get better than that. I'm def keeping her around indefinitely 'cause i have too much shit to get done to be messing around with a real life distraction, I mean girlfriend.
That said, I've met two providers where it wasn't all about the money. I'm in my mid 40's, my first encounter with a pro was in South America. I was 14, she was like 26. I've been doing this for a while. One of those providers I had to stop seeing back in 2012 'cause I got back with my girlfriend. Lost contact. The one I currently see now is the 2nd. I pay her a modest/fair hourly rate, she stays with me the entire short stay each and every time. We drink, we talk, we chill. It ain't gonna get better than that. I'm def keeping her around indefinitely 'cause i have too much shit to get done to be messing around with a real life distraction, I mean girlfriend.
I have been doing this for over 25 years and outside of an occasional lunch or dinner in CT I have never given any of these women gifts of any kind. I tip solely on the quality of service, not just at AMP s but any service where tipping is appropriate. I refuse to be intimidated by suggested tipping. How many of us have heard the infamous lines “first time for me” or “I only do this for you” ? A first time for me would be for one of these women after some serious moaning and supposed “O” s to hand me back the tip ank say thank you for the experience !
@ OP
It sounds like your former ATF purposely booked you for an hour and a half and she knew that another customer would be coming in an hour. Many amp girls record the session as an hour when it was only for 30 mins and for 90 mins when it was only for an hour.
Anyway, disregard her. Karma will eventually get her.
It sounds like your former ATF purposely booked you for an hour and a half and she knew that another customer would be coming in an hour. Many amp girls record the session as an hour when it was only for 30 mins and for 90 mins when it was only for an hour.
Anyway, disregard her. Karma will eventually get her.
Still waiting for her reply.