Never prepaid providers

[Thelizardking32]

I have been fucking an indy near edison that had a short stunt with Bianca. I would see her couple times a month for about 9 months. Near the year end, she told me she wanted to see me so she can pay her rent. I was traveling for work at the time so I couldn’t make it. After some back and forth convos, she asked if I can send her 500 to cover her rent and she promise to make it up for me after I’m back. Given how long we have seen each other for, I agreed. She then stopped replying back to my messages and blocked me from her instagram. What’s done is done, however, I sometimes wonder why would a provider stop seeing a client that pays ~1000 per month over 500 bucks…

Despite know her real name, Im not going to disclose her personal information to the public, but feel free to dm me if you run into similar situation. I know most mongers here are wise enough to not make the same mistake I did.

 

[dietwater]

I have been fucking an indy near edison that had a short stunt with Bianca. I would see her couple times a month for about 9 months. Near the year end, she told me she wanted to see me so she can pay her rent. I was traveling for work at the time so I couldn’t make it. After some back and forth convos, she asked if I can send her 500 to cover her rent and she promise to make it up for me after I’m back. Given how long we have seen each other for, I agreed. She then stopped replying back to my messages and blocked me from her instagram. What’s done is done, however, I sometimes wonder why would a provider stop seeing a client that pays ~1000 per month over 500 bucks…

Despite know her real name, Im not going to disclose her personal information to the public, but feel free to dm me if you run into similar situation. I know most mongers here are wise enough to not make the same mistake I did.

Well put it into perspective. You see it as she gave up 1000 a month regularly be it 250 once a week session for a hour to scamming 500 out of you.
What makes more sense? Fuck some stranger 4x times a month for a hour, not sure if she drove, had Uber expense, point is she had more invested In time and energy and perhaps money then just bedroom fun orrrrrrr
Get 500 for doing nothing ? Odds are she didn’t not need the
Money , she has other guys giving her cash weekly to well over a six figure income, sounds like she wanted to be done with you and cash out

 

[Rx7gringo]

This has drug problem written all over it.

 

[helluvahorn]

Don't buy any credit default swap. Hope you feel better.

 

[Koondog]

Lola huh?

 

[Koondog]

Layla

 

[superman12379]

being in this hobby for 35 years, there are a few who have tried this on me, i have always said no. i go back to them for a session, if the session is bad cause i said no, i write them of my list and move on. for me it is a simple money transaction, i pay you for a service, if the service is bad, i wont see you again

 

[Rx7gringo]

Maybe we should start asking the providers can we hit now and pay them later

 

[Koondog]

A girl from 785 used to try and pull this shit with me too. "Can you give me 1000, I need it for whatever and I'll give it back to you next time you come to the store", I said in order to get that out of me you would have to do x, y, and z sexually that you normally won't do and spend the night with me first. Of course her reply to that was 'no'.

 

[Johnnylovesmassages]

so here is the deal. You were one among many. She figured there were some of you she could get rid of (ie not see anymore) and decided to go for one more payday. Multiply that by X and she got a nice payday and got rid of some excess clients she didn't want to service anymore. It's all about the money. She was going to ghost you anyway (sorry, nothing personal I'm sure) and figured out a way to get one more dollar from you. It's all a business.

 

[codev]

Can you PM which provider it was? Don’t need to know her real name but would like to know whom to avoid

 

[dglsmn]

Can you PM which provider it was? Don’t need to know her real name but would like to know whom to avoid

Just avoid the same scenario with anyone and you’ll b fine

 

[debonair]

She's silly. Seems like Op was her regular.

 

[Thelizardking32]

Guys, it’s not Layla! I will verify yes or no in dm to help you avoid similar situations, but as I said I don’t want to disclosed her information to the general public. As a fellow monger noted above, just avoid prepaying providers all together and you will be fine.

 

[Peacoatsamurai]

I'll say it once and I'll say it again, us guys are the more intelligent ones in these encounters. You most likely have your shit together in order to have the funds to spend on these chicks. Some intelligence and hard work is needed to have your shit together. I'm comparison, these chicks just need to know how to be pretty and post an ad. Doing something as dumb as giving up on a consistent customer for a quick buck is within their wheelhouse and shouldn't be a surprise when it happens. OP paid $500 for a life lesson. In turn, she paid $1,000's for a lesson.

 

[Hobby1975]

I tried to monger in a midwestern city recently and found a LOT of pretty white girls advertising there, with one catch that I have never noticed in NJ or NY: they all wanted a deposit up front before they would agree to see me (even for an incall).

I wasn’t born yesterday- after all, this is a game that I (a man) could pay too: advertise with some fake photos, text mongers back and forth, and cash in if and when some of them were stupid enough to send me a deposit.

I didn’t send anyone anything up front, and also didn’t get laid.

Is paying a deposit up front a midwestern thing and genuine - or was I right in not sending cash up front?

 

[Koondog]

I tried to monger in a midwestern city recently and found a LOT of pretty white girls advertising there, with one catch that I have never noticed in NJ or NY: they all wanted a deposit up front before they would agree to see me (even for an incall).

I wasn’t born yesterday- after all, this is a game that I (a man) could pay too: advertise with some fake photos, text mongers back and forth, and cash in if and when some of them were stupid enough to send me a deposit.

I didn’t send anyone anything up front, and also didn’t get laid.

Is paying a deposit up front a midwestern thing and genuine - or was I right in not sending cash up front?

Was it on skipthegames?

 

[BillyBlueEye2]

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Is paying a deposit up front a midwestern thing and genuine - or was I right in not sending cash up front?

I think you did the right thing in not sending a deposit, you didnt lose money and you didnt encourage deposits. Check out Tryst just about every girl on there wants a deposit now, its not at all uncommon in NJ. A lot of the girls looking for deposits on there you cant find a single review and some are very well reviewed, either way I wont pay a deposit. Even a girl with excellent reviews could either get hacked or just go rogue and decide to start ripping people off.

 

[Drake143]

If some provider did this to me I would post her info here for everyone to see so that she learns her lesson. Knowing what she does and not saying her name is probably as close as being an accomplice. Just my 2 cents.

 

[Hobby1975]

Was it on skipthegames?

I don’t remember. Perhaps. Why?