Hello, I was wondering if any veteran monger might be willing to share some trade secrets with me sometime. Hopefully I've used my terminology ok so far. I've been trying to get a feel for this without any action because, well, I don't want to end up making some rookie mistakes right out the gate. If I'm out of line for asking, feel free to let me know, but I figure rather than asking a bunch of dumb questions, maybe I could ask one BIG dumb question.
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New to the hobby
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Ok, well I've taken all your advise to heart, I think I found my first stop, now I just need to nut up and go do something. Not LE though, sorry if I give off, um... bad vibes? IDK, I just have a hard time separating from my money. Yes, yes, not a cheap hobby, correct. Neither is dating. If you want to save money your only real choice in life is to commit to celibacy.
Make sure you’re well showered and respectful of the provider during your visit. That will go a long way towards an engaging and delightful session. If she “accidentally” touches the boys during the massage, you’re likely to receive some subsequent options. During the massage you may want to gently caress her leg, which will give her notice that you’re up for options. If she tells you to stop, you know it’s legit massage only. Good luck.
I consider myself sort of a traditionalist, especially with other cultures traditions. One thing I tend to always do, besides what others have mentioned is to offer the house fee and tip with both hands. I haven’t had the luxury to visit the home countries, as some on the forums but giving gifts/money using both hands is a sign of respect in China and Korea. For me, I do all I can to show these providers I appreciate them and quite frankly, put them at ease since I’m considerably larger than they are. By larger, I mean in shape(not fat) and height. Most providers not born or lived stateside for some time are definitely intimidated by me at first glance so I go out of my way to ease any preconceptions — speak softly, say thank you for everything when taking me to the room/shower/door when leaving. Do my best to show them respect and that I’m friendly and not a jerk or aggressive. Their boundaries are law — no ifs ands or buts!
Be a clean, good dude and you’ll enjoy the different spas, providers and experiences.
Be a clean, good dude and you’ll enjoy the different spas, providers and experiences.
Side note-this is one of the best newbie threads. Real discussion and sharing of viable info unrelated to YMMV.
Sorta like we are sharing the guide to life: be a good person, take time to appreciate others differences, and be authentic.
Hope to see this thread continue! #kudos to you all for sharing perspectives
Sorta like we are sharing the guide to life: be a good person, take time to appreciate others differences, and be authentic.
Hope to see this thread continue! #kudos to you all for sharing perspectives
I would add that it’s normal to be super nervous the first time or two. I must’ve been kind of obvious but I quickly said “I tip well, don’t worry” and put the tip money on the table. That put the provider at ease which in turn helped me relax. Be gentle, ask for permission before you do stuff (“Touch Ok?” “Kiss ok? [point at nipples]”), and if she says no to something be respectful.