Betty is still around...wow. I think the best advice is 2 pops, one at the beginning 2nd at end. Cost a bit more but worth it. See the same provider for a while, sometimes familiarity calms the nerves. Try a whole tab of viagra. Sometimes the larger dose helps. And a more extreme option is LOW dose antidepressants. They are known for impacting the libido. The low dose may help. Thats a more extreme option, but I figured I would throw it out there. One other thing, be careful that you don't get stuck in a loop of only going to providers because of concerns about your abilities. That can be a lonely trip. If you are putting in effort in the 100 other ways you can satisfy a woman, the right woman is going to work with you on your endurance. Good luck, I am sure it will all work out in the long run....