This. Anybody who would ever treat any girl that way just because he's "paying for it" is a more fucked up human being than any girl in this industry and a Jedi Master of self-serving rationalization. And all those guys who encourage and congratulate them for their exploits are just abuse enablers. Nor is it any mystery which guys cause girls to cry about their lives at night, because some of those guys actually proudly volunteer the information about girls who end up crying because of them during their sessions.
Negative. I couldn't give a flying fuck what any girl's ethnicity is. I have a thing for petite girls with dark eyes and really silky-soft straight hair. There are as many Latinas I like as Asian girls, but in this city, most of the girls in this community who are my type work at AMPs. Even so, there are more (Asian) girls at every AMP who I'd barely be interested in fucking for free, let alone for $400/hr. That DDY thread is a perfect example of why I always need real photos no matter how many great reviews a girl may have: there are several girls discussed in that thread and universally referred to as gorgeous smoke shows who do absolutely nothing for me would never pick from a line-up if I did line-ups; and the vast majority of the girls I'd never pick are just as Asian as the ones who are smoke shows to me. I also always ask in advance about how good a girl's English is, precisely because I do enjoy talking to them and getting to know them in the process and it's a much emptier experience for me when we can barely communicate. I have zero problems communicating with women and the reason more than a few girls who are extremely popular in this community have gotten to know me well enough to see me outside of their places of work without compensation is our conversations even though I'm hardly the wealthiest, best-looking, or youngest of all the many guys they see whose overtures to know them outside of work they reject almost all an hourly basis.