I was just wondering if after an excursion where you may of exhibited some risky behavior do you ever feel disgusted with yourself. Or maybe after a little mongering do you feel ashamed or guilty? Yeah me neither lol. I normally just laugh at myself and call myself a wild boy and look forward for the next adventure. Stay safe
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Post nut clarity
- Thread starter The night rider
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I wonder about this a lot. One could say “We’re men” to justify all their behaviors even cheating on their wives but what you master doesn’t define you, what masters you defines you. I’ve seen families destroyed because the father just couldn’t keep it in his pants.
Can one even control their sexual urges since it is so embedded into our subconscious? Even if you willpower your way through it, the sexual urge and aggression will manifest itself in other behaviors and vice versa. Usually it’s after something happens that bothers/disrupts us that we are driven to temptation. Literally, if the prefrontal cortex is stressed, we lose our rational inhibition. So what’s really driving us? The sexual urge or the loss of control? Which side are you going to feed? The rational or the animal?
Logically, it makes no sense and the post nut clarity is proof of that. Your testosterone (and therefore drive and energy) drops after wasting your nut on a dirty whore rather than on using it for your goals and performance. You’re risking stds, herpes, the big H. And for what? To empty your balls?
Keep the hobby as a gift. Schedule it. You control it, it doesn’t control you. Or at least that’s how it should be. Addiction isn’t really a thing unless it’s infringing upon your day to day life (negatively and indefinitely).
Can one even control their sexual urges since it is so embedded into our subconscious? Even if you willpower your way through it, the sexual urge and aggression will manifest itself in other behaviors and vice versa. Usually it’s after something happens that bothers/disrupts us that we are driven to temptation. Literally, if the prefrontal cortex is stressed, we lose our rational inhibition. So what’s really driving us? The sexual urge or the loss of control? Which side are you going to feed? The rational or the animal?
Logically, it makes no sense and the post nut clarity is proof of that. Your testosterone (and therefore drive and energy) drops after wasting your nut on a dirty whore rather than on using it for your goals and performance. You’re risking stds, herpes, the big H. And for what? To empty your balls?
Keep the hobby as a gift. Schedule it. You control it, it doesn’t control you. Or at least that’s how it should be. Addiction isn’t really a thing unless it’s infringing upon your day to day life (negatively and indefinitely).
I'm gonna over share but I think it'll help.
Women today literally ask for money for their nails/bills etc via text.
Not their fault, simp guys pay for stuff while getting no cat from them so they try this with every guy.
So when I think "maybe this is wrong", I remember the new girl I met, had drinks with, flirted with via text/DMs just asked me to pay for half her plane ticket to a family trip in FL without me and she works in law. She HAS the money, but hey what not ask?
Smh
Instead, I spend less than $200 with a lady eager to please, some I connect with and we become cool and I get to bust a healthy nut and go home relaxed.
Sure I'd like a healthy relationship, but till then...this works out fine.
Women today literally ask for money for their nails/bills etc via text.
Not their fault, simp guys pay for stuff while getting no cat from them so they try this with every guy.
So when I think "maybe this is wrong", I remember the new girl I met, had drinks with, flirted with via text/DMs just asked me to pay for half her plane ticket to a family trip in FL without me and she works in law. She HAS the money, but hey what not ask?
Smh
Instead, I spend less than $200 with a lady eager to please, some I connect with and we become cool and I get to bust a healthy nut and go home relaxed.
Sure I'd like a healthy relationship, but till then...this works out fine.
20+ years I've never felt ashamed or guilty. I've only ever thought twice in that that I made my personal bar for parters too high due to the hobby. That is to say, I'm now only attracted to the top 10-20% of females out there for my age group. That is not ideal for anyone that is simply looking for a life partner to settle down and share a life with. That aspect is the hidden cost in all of this in the long term.