Mr Rob is correct, from personal experience, when she advertises "Willing to Negotiate ", she is opening the door to taking about prices. A hot lady can become a utr lady for any one willing to spend time and grants. she is not my type, but this would/is my mo.
follow her instructions on her add to the t, text or email. keep it short . introduce yourself, name, age, ethnicity, etc. do not lie, i do not use my real name on first meeting. that is the only thing that i fib on my initial contact. also include when and time you want to meet her, put a prefer day and an alternate. do not mention anything about extras. read her ad carefully. also i never contact them, if i can not see them in the next day or 2-3 days after my initial contact. this type of lady for the most part run on a weekly schedule. when she gets back to you. keep your promises. follow any extra instructions giving.
show up showered, fresh breath, clean appearance, make sure your shoes and socks pass the smell test. nothing worse than removing your shoes and stinking the room. trust me, i have smelled stink from others mongers feet when they take their shoes off when entering the amp, and i am not even there, i am in the massage room. lmao, but i digress
what i do the day of the meeting? i ll send a short message a few hours reconfirming the appointment, again, polite short message. then i ask her if she likes chocolates or sometimes i ask if she likes flowers? if answer is yes, i take her an inexpensive floral arrangement. whole foods has them, almost all supermarket.
chocolates i ll buy a small box, 4 pieces. almost any good supermarket has them. some times the lady will say, no thank you is not necessary. you by asking are already ahead of the game. you are already setting the mood of the encounter. if the say, bring a bottle of wine, i have had that request several times. then bring the kind they tell you. do not bring cheap/ cooking wine. 20 bucks wine is perfect. the wine will almost guaranty a nice experience. i see a couple of ladies that i know like a glass or two of wine before we get to business.
then i arrive on time. first impression you only get one. introduce yourself again and if the girl looks like the pictures, complement her, complement her looks, face, etc. if her studio is nice, tell her. sincere complements open doors. maybe not on first meeting, remember this is an investment in? yup time and grants.
if you feel it is a bait and switch, you have to walk. tell her the pictures are not accurate and leave. i have done many times. i end with chocolates and flowers at home for my SO. win win lmao.
then you follow her directions or conversation about the session. ladies have routines, it is your first time seeing her.
if you connect and had a good session, and obviously, if you want to see her again, tell her before leaving. something like..how is your schedule next week or in two weeks, hell i have been back the following day, lmao. tell her you'll sent her a message to confirm appointment, do it, second visit is when things start changing.
yes you are investing time and money. if she likes you and you see her often every other month, once a month,idk, you will develop a friendship. not your girlfriend or side piece. i always pay for services rendered. lady might even give you her personal number, real name, etc. will it happen on first, second or third time seeing her.?
probably not. if she changes professions will she still see you, probably. she moves her studio will she tell you? yes. she will know what you like, dislike.
i can assure you that it becomes a total different experience. we'll she give you priority with her time /schedule? absolutely.
this is how, in my experience, i have developed true utr ladies. again, you need to spent time and money.
if you just want cheap whoring with utr ladies, then this is not the way.
you need to go to a cheap fast house and try to convince the lady to see you on the side. or amp place and see lady on side. not really utr lady imho.
i guaranty no tyrst looks or quality. i dot not partake on fast house, motel, or seeing amp lady not at the amp.
as always your YMMV and stay safe.
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