IMO, you can date a provider as long as no feelings are attached. You not going to save her, pay her bills, etc. You are just going to go out and have fun. No strings attached. If you have that mind set, then it’s ok.
I “dated” a provider recently in a relationship that lasted 3 months. She is a popular provider in the fast houses so I won’t say her name. I met her a few years ago, then saw her again as a client earlier this year. When she saw me, after we had our fun, we spoke and she told me she is feeling me. Took a shot and ask her if she wanted to go out. She said yes.
Went to her house to pick her up and she said we don’t have to go to dinner. She made dinner for me. Pretty damn good surf and turf. Girl can cook. After we just spent the whole night having sex. Literally the whole night. She made me breakfast the next morning.
Every weekend for 3 months was the same. Not once did I spend a dollar on this woman. Never went out. It was dinner at her house, drinks that she made at her home bar (thanks guys for giving her all those bottles), talk, music and sex.
Then one day she ghosted me and that was that. Didn’t care why because I had no feelings for her. She was my booty call basically. I got fed, and fuck this girl in every hole and all she wanted was for me to show her love. Give her attention. Talk to her, spend the night and hold her. No problem for me.
So this obviously is not the norm by far. Just saying it can happen.
Lastly, the things she will tell me about you mongers. If you guys really think you made these girls days when you visit them. You are sadly mistaken. No you didn’t make them cum 5 times. No she wasn’t loving it. It’s an act. It’s about the money.