PSA - feel good to say no

[draytonmc]

Just wanted to post to say that I walked out for the first time ever. It was actually pretty liberating. I felt almost as good afterwards as had having a great session and I still had cash in my pocket.
Typically I'd be in the room and I'd force going through with one of the options presented, but nope, saw who was available and just wasn't feeling it. Gotta do that more often.
I feel like other times I would've tried to scramble for another option, but nope stuck to it and just told myself next time.
Anyone else feel that pleased after walking out?

 

[Ellocohombre]

I threw a post up last week. When that happens I go and buy myself something nice with the money I would have spent at the spa. Last a hell of a lot longer and makes you feel better.

 

[이 회장님]

If my gut tells me to leave then I’ll leave. I’ll then grab a nice dinner and then go a nice sauna to relax and then head home.

 

[draytonmc]

This admittedly could be a more frequent occurrence. Lady didn't even really seem that bothered by it. More like a common occurrence.
If anyone's curious it was wawa/41spa. Ladies were mid 40 and nothing special.
I just figured save my cash for a better time next time. Nothing else I really need

 

[rnb6969]

This admittedly could be a more frequent occurrence. Lady didn't even really seem that bothered by it. More like a common occurrence.
If anyone's curious it was wawa/41spa. Ladies were mid 40 and nothing special.
I just figured save my cash for a better time next time. Nothing else I really need

I read a post where this dude forced seeing a girl, he'd scramble to find one Last minute then be full of regret cause it wasn't the girl he planned. Kudos to those who hobby with intention. I've found myself in the unfortunate circumstance of choosing someone who I'm not really interested in. Much rather wait for a deliberate decision then be forced into something subpar.

Always remember it's ok.to walk away.

 

[Johnny Blaze]

I've walked out of my favorite places many times...even after the first shower.

 

[Retired042224-1]

Just wanted to post to say that I walked out for the first time ever. It was actually pretty liberating. I felt almost as good afterwards as had having a great session and I still had cash in my pocket.
Typically I'd be in the room and I'd force going through with one of the options presented, but nope, saw who was available and just wasn't feeling it. Gotta do that more often.
I feel like other times I would've tried to scramble for another option, but nope stuck to it and just told myself next time.
Anyone else feel that pleased after walking out?

Ive done it twice. The first time MMS texted me when I was outide, "What happened"? I responded "not even close to girl in photos!" I was afraid she would ban me. Few weeks later, I tried this spot again, and no problem. I cant say that the girls are always the girls in the photos, but always good enough. If you have that instant feeling of disappointent, then leave!

 

[rnb6969]

Ive done it twice. The first time MMS texted me when I was outide, "What happened"? I responded "not even close to girl in photos!" I was afraid she would ban me. Few weeks later, I tried this spot again, and no problem. I cant say that the girls are always the girls in the photos, but always good enough. If you have that instant feeling of disappointent, then leave!

It's pretty obvious when the photos are high quality and look as if they were photoshopped then you know to expect something different. For me if it's completely different then I'm not hesitant to say sayonara. Recently I've been getting lucky with excellent service and great girls. But I've been doing this long enough to realize another unfortunate mishap may be right around the corner.

 

[spinnerboy75]

I've done it a couple times, I was feeling more pissed than pleased after because I was catfished. MMS at MG ensured me Yuri was working, went all the way there and no Yuri so she tried to spring another girl on me who ended up being popular but I left.

 

[gaga2732]

Mr. dray, good for you. more of us do it than not, i think and hope.
i have simple hard rules when visiting the amp.
1. i do not even take my shoes off until i see and speak to the lady who is going to provide the massage, she needs to pass my eye test.
2. i do not give house fee to anyone until i see lady who is going to give me massage, see rule number 1
3. i will not wait for more than 5-10 min for lady to come to the room if i made an appointment. that is the reason i made appointment, and why i follow rule number 1 and 2
4. i never let mamasan start massage, unless i know mama and she gives a good massage. i have to agree to it. if lady i made appointment is not available i walk. i do not want substitutions on the fly. see rule 1,2,3
5. i do not take bait and switch, see rule number 1, 2, 3, 4. i do not buy excuses. lucy is sick but mia is here, no bueno in my book. i walk.

1-5 have worked well for me. becoming a regular of a place makes a difference with the mamasan, aka, the boss

stay safe, ymmv

 

[thurber]

It's your money. Spend wisely.

For walk in spas where I don't necessarily know who's working, I probably walk 80% of the time.

For appt GFE spas where I'm seeing someone specific but for the first time, I probably ask to switch 25% of the time.

I also don’t remove any clothing or pay any money until I see who’s giving the massage.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Man i walked when i first started this hobby when i wasn't a hobbyist. I once in Jackson heights or Corona Queens had a worker walk me to 4 spots and didnt pick anyone. Idgaf i spend my money on what i want. These places lie with the pics and people shouldn't feel obligated to stay.

Shit few weeks ago i snatched the money back when the girl was doing what the ad said she does. She was annoyed and i left. The other day i walked from another motel spot. I also left a session when the provider tried charging me for some bullshit she tried to block the door and the mgr was called. The manager immediately told the girl to let me leave . I was laughing like this little pro gonna reallh be able to stop me if i wanna leave.

Your money leave .

 

[Beacon]

We should never feel obligated to stay if we are not happy with the situation. This is the best way to keep shops honest. The few times that I stayed when the situation did not feel right I instantly regretted it upon leaving. Waste of time and money.

 

[kenan]

2. i do not give house fee to anyone until i see lady who is going to give me massage, see rule number 1

This is one part I need to get better at. Haven't had many bad/regretful exps to be honest, but for the few I did, felt that I should just stay as I already paid the house fee- was hard for me to tell the MMS to wait!

 

[Uniquelyme]

This is one part I need to get better at. Haven't had many bad/regretful exps to be honest, but for the few I did, felt that I should just stay as I already paid the house fee- was hard for me to tell the MMS to wait!

Always know you are the customer. Don't act like some people on here like these girls doing us a favor. It's a transaction. No one pays for a service without meeting the person doing the work. No one pays for half work or most of what was promised.

If more people would walk out or demand to speak to a manager trust things would change.

Sometimes the manager may get mad however most of them will respect you and know not to try bullshit with you.

 

[Beacon]

If you are a regular at a shop and have a good relationship with the manager then you’ll have an easier time setting up good appointments. Also, they will listen to your complaints to ensure they retain you as a customer. When trying out a new spot, unless you’re hoping to make it a part of the rotation don’t feel burdened to stay. There are always other options out there.

 

[gaga2732]

Mr. Beacon, at #16 is correct in my experience, however, even knowing mamasan, i follow rule # 1 and #3,

When I agree for mama to start massage, happens few times, i tell mama i first need to see the lady even for 10 sec, i want to make sure she is working, i tell mama 15 min max of her giving massage, unless mama is someone i know and really like, i also tell her house fee will be paid to lady when she takes over my massage/service. My bros everything can be negotiated, do not be shy. for example, i will tell mama, if i like and i know lady who i came to see is working,
you can start massage, but hour with lady does not start until she comes to see me. i have gotten that agreement many times, i'll give mama a small tip on my way out for her massage. i have gotten 1/2 house fee or discount from the tip when the lady i came to see is running late. it happens.
But i have also walked out many times. Is not personal. Mr. Beacon said it best. " always other options out there".

Your, coin, mulah, dough, franklings, jacksons, ..... you are the driver as long as it is in your pocket. once it is not, you are the passenger.

ymmv, stay safe.

 

[didi88]

If you are a regular at a shop and have a good relationship with the manager then you’ll have an easier time setting up good appointments. Also, they will listen to your complaints to ensure they retain you as a customer.

Agree. To me, this the the key to getting the best bang for your buck (literally and figuratively). I’ve walked at places where MMS knows me, and it hasn’t been a problem. In fact, they usually appreciate feedback from good customers, positive or negative. Apart from the J-girls BBFS places, a lot of less popular shops are actually not doing all that great, so they want to keep all the customers they can get

 

[Explorer2067]

I read a post where this dude forced seeing a girl, he'd scramble to find one Last minute then be full of regret cause it wasn't the girl he planned. Kudos to those who hobby with intention. I've found myself in the unfortunate circumstance of choosing someone who I'm not really interested in. Much rather wait for a deliberate decision then be forced into something subpar.

Always remember it's ok.to walk away.

I drove a long distance to visit a place I frequented that was hot or miss but a fun place non the less. Found a beautiful blonde spinner in the lobby…. Really wanted to experience her but Alas she wasn’t feeling well, so I landed the older gal just because I didn’t want to get skunked. Turned out the little lady was fine by the time I was finished with the First Lady. … if only of waited or returned later. I, of course, hadn’t brought enough funds with me at the time and couldn’t get any at that hour without raising questions from my partner. I try and be a little more discerning now.

 

[cher_cheri]

I've never once walked. Though, these days, I hardly ever see someone who hasn't been reviewed. And then, even if the visual isn't what I was expecting, I'll give it a try. My sessions that have been really bad at GFE AMPS, I didn't know until after the shower, because it's so much about attitude for me.