"Raw/BB Sex with Provider"

[Rombulous]

Once you go raw you can’t go back

Oh I'm going back alright...Back to the monastery

 

[hithere456]

Once you go raw you can’t go back

I second that

 

[doofu77]

Like I said they all lie to themselves to a certain degree but you can mitigate damage by focusing on the facts:

- How old is she (the younger they are the higher the risk for both). A 28 year old Chinese girl probably like 90% of them have at least Chlaymdia, yeast infections and some other shit, compared to the 48 year olds.
- Is it high or low volume provider, 90% legit or 90% FS would make a big difference obviously
- How long you known her and are you able to communicate outside the spa
- Hygiene - If there are foul odors that indicates she is perfectly fine busting it open no matter what and has no shame or modesty. Which mean she probably don't go to the Doctor or care about much else in her life.

Nothing guaranteed but there are basic ways to lower risk. If the condom broke - I'd consider the above before freaking out.

The only point I didn't understand is why a younger girl would have higher chance of std? You assuming they get more customers or something?

 

[Rombulous]

The only point I didn't understand is why a younger girl would have higher chance of std? You assuming they get more customers or something?

Yes this is a commonly known fact. CDC reports age 16-25 represent over 50% of new infections. Think about it most guys want younger. If offered the chance 90% of Men would bust raw in a young hot 21 year old no matter what consequences. Can't say the same for 45+ with stretch marks.

 

[Mikethetank]

I actually heard senior citizens have the highest rate

 

[ChaChaZhongGuo]

I actually heard senior citizens have the highest rate

Not true.

Older folks have shown the highest increase, a dramatic increase in the last decade but still much lower numbers. Most likely reason, the Woodstock generation are aging and many are sitting around in senior communities with not much to do and access to viagra, etc. a very different model from retirement in the 20th Century.

No need to rely on hearsay. It’s easy to google the CDC “STD surveillance report” or articles that break it down with commentary.

 

[Rombulous]

I'm getting a rapid early detection for the Chlaymdia/Gonorrhea/Trich today (highly sensitive, can detect as early as 48 hours ) but pricey at $289 out of pocket in NYC area. But super convenient you apparently just walk in and pee in a cup.

I'll probably follow-up with a re-test after 30 days for everything else including those 3.

 

[mbill6969]

I'm getting a rapid early detection for the Chlaymdia/Gonorrhea/Trich today (highly sensitive, can detect as early as 48 hours ) but pricey at $289 out of pocket in NYC area. But super convenient you apparently just walk in and pee in a cup.

I'll probably follow-up with a re-test after 30 days for everything else including those 3.

$289!! Just an FYI there's a free clinic right in the NYC area that will do all of that plus a 15 min HIV test for no out of pocket expenses.

 

[doofu77]

$289!! Just an FYI there's a free clinic right in the NYC area that will do all of that plus a 15 min HIV test for no out of pocket expenses.

Where is this place?

 

[solomon_456]

Friends enjoy it we are adults we know the risks think 2 times when she says only for you baby

Yeah, i makes me laugh when i get the “only for you” on text before i even met her once. Lol

 

[mbill6969]

Where is this place?

Chelsea. 303 9th Avenue. That's where I went. Easy as pie. You will see a doctor though for the exam. Judgement free zone too. All of the staff were friendly and professional. They also have locations in BK, Queens and the Bronx.

 

[TGBeldin]

Can one become pregnant from pre-cum? I don’t think so

Then you think very wrong. Yes, she most certainly can get pregnant that way.

 

[Rombulous]

Chelsea. 303 9th Avenue. That's where I went. Easy as pie. You will see a doctor though for the exam. Judgement free zone too. All of the staff were friendly and professional. They also have locations in BK, Queens and the Bronx.

Yeah they have one about 15 min from me but VERY limited hours for the FREE testing. Plus I am not sure they have the RAPID early detection versions of the test available. I will re-test using my insurance at a later date using the standard detection panel for everything.

Basically I'm paying a premium for convenience I was in and out in like 5 minutes. The FREE walk-in options you will be sitting with 100 other people getting weird looks and given a #, hope you have all day to wait....

 

[solomon_456]

Then you think very wrong. Yes, she most certainly can get pregnant that way.

Is this based on knowledge/science or just your belief?

 

[mbill6969]

Hey Rombulous. I hear you sometimes it's worth it to pay for a quick result. My experience wasn't too bad. I went on a Monday walked in at 11:30 and was done by 1, maybe a little earlier.

Yeah there are definitely other people waiting but we're all there for the same reasons so I could give less than a fuck about their weird looks. Worst part was watching the same Sex Ed videos over and over in English and Spanish.

 

[TGBeldin]

Is this based on knowledge/science or just your belief?

Science. Biological facts that, as others have said, sperm can stay a while in the penis, or on the head/shaft. No, urinating is not a 100% spermicide. And sometimes a body's valves aren't perfect and some cum gets out before we think it does.

Lots of women find out they are pregnancy when " I can't be pregnant, he pulled out!"

 

[Rombulous]

Science. Biological facts that, as others have said, sperm can stay a while in the penis, or on the head/shaft. No, urinating is not a 100% spermicide. And sometimes a body's valves aren't perfect and some cum gets out before we think it does.

Lots of women find out they are pregnancy when " I can't be pregnant, he pulled out!"

Just make sure she doesn't know your legal name/address and preferably her first language is not English

And don't send her any pictures of you of course

 

[doofu77]

Chelsea. 303 9th Avenue. That's where I went. Easy as pie. You will see a doctor though for the exam. Judgement free zone too. All of the staff were friendly and professional. They also have locations in BK, Queens and the Bronx.

Piggy backing on this comment. This is the link all all the locations.

https://www1.nyc.gov/site/doh/services/sexual-health-clinics.page

 

[jfox987]

I'm getting a rapid early detection for the Chlaymdia/Gonorrhea/Trich today (highly sensitive, can detect as early as 48 hours ) but pricey at $289 out of pocket in NYC area. But super convenient you apparently just walk in and pee in a cup.
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out of pocket means anonymous ?
mind sharing where this place is?

 

[Swen]

I used to go to the free clinic in NYC, they used to ask for ID unless you are only doing an anonymous HIV test. Everything else they want ID for. I would get there around 7:30-8am (doors open at 8:30) and be done around 9:30-10:30. For results, you wait for the HIV results and you call for the other results after a few days.

I’ve tried Planned Parenthood, and their appointments are months out. Their prices was $200+. For results, you are given a card with a number to call, a mailbox number and password, which is a voicemail box and they leave you a message for you to retrieve after a few days.

The place that I use now is www.stdcheck.com. You can get an appointment at the labs they use the same day. They don’t check ID at the lab and you can pay with a prepaid card. Their instructions for the lab even says don’t ask for ID. For results, you have to sign in to the website and check new messages. You start to get results that night or the next day and the complete panel results after a few days. They notify you via email of new messages. Their prices was $200 but now is $188. If you are a repeat customer, they take off 10% for the subsequent tests.