I think confidence comes in at a young age. I will never forget being 10-11 and the girl who worked at the pharmacy said i was so cute and would give me free candy. I thought she was pretty. Then i turned 12 and some girl asked me out. I went out with her and dumped her cause she dumped my friend before. Bros before _ _ _ _. After that going to high school girls would you to walk with them. Girls asked me out from ages 12-18 not many but 7 or so. And in between that walk em to class other girls take bus their head on your shoulder. Ive had gfs from age 12-25 consistently. Never had to try hard. Going to clubs dancing with the girl who said no to basically everyone.
Fucking multiple girls at my first job. Threesomes at age 23 etc. A true tell tale sign i think is if more girls love you than girls youve fallen in love with. Girls calling you cause they want dick, exes calling u cause they want closure dick. So my confidence came from them. They supplied it. Same as them when all the dudes drool over them.
Remember walkimg the halls with my gf. Her kissing on the cheek and hugs to other guys her sister watching me asking if that bothered me. Me legit not caring and saying no. Her sister my gf looking at me and baffled "why doesnt he get jealous?" Me telling her we should take a 2week break and telling my new gf i broke up with my ex. Me juggling 5 girls at age 17. Me taking $800 from my gf in or joint checking which i had no money in lmaoooo.
Watching how Women will make excuses for Men they truly like. Me watching em stay up all night go to work early next am. Disobey their parents. Pick me over their friends.
When i was 12-25 i virtually always put myself first. Until i met my ex fiancee. We argued i told her get out the car like i did with numerous girls and they all capitulated. She got out and took a cab home. I was intrigued. Who is this Woman and why is she not catering to me. First Woman that broke up with me. First and only.
To get all that confidence on your own when Women dont give you play. I would imagine is difficult. My current gf i also love a lot and i definitely hold my ground. But shes 20 so i sometimes capitulate cause shes pretty and sexy and i lts close to even in power. It gets harder to be dominant when you het older and your gfs are still young imo.
If i was 25 i think i'd wash her up