Rent-a-Girlfriend in Japan. Do you think it would work here?

[이 회장님]

Many Korean women are open to dating non-Koreans. They are sick and tired of Korean men because many of them are emotional, insecure and lose their temper by raising their voice and even use physical violence such as grabbing their arms or hand or throwing an ash tray into the wall.

Besides, most Korean men in Seoul are corporate slaves, barely make ends meet and live with their parents. Not a good combo. lol

 

[BIGBOB62]

Many Korean women are open to dating non-Koreans. They are sick and tired of Korean men because many of them are emotional, insecure and lose their temper by raising their voice and even use physical violence such as grabbing their arms or hand or throwing an ash tray into the wall.

Besides, most Korean men in Seoul are corporate slaves, barely make ends meet and live with their parents. Not a good combo. lol

Totally. What I see is that Korean men stay at home until they marry, sometimes into their 40s. They live outside Seoul and have ridiculous commutes. They have all the issues you'd expect in a guy that's never been away from his mommy. Korean women are more likely to band together and get a small apartment where 3-4 of them can stay in the city. Guys can't do that because they are clueless in so many things like shopping, laundry, cooking, cleaning.
We put our foreign employees in apartments in core areas of Seoul close to work and subsidize their rent. So in essence we are putting them in a situation where there's tons of unattached girls nearby who are super annoyed already about the Korean guys with mommy issues and 2-3 hour commutes.

 

[richardp2918]

Totally. What I see is that Korean men stay at home until they marry, sometimes into their 40s. They live outside Seoul and have ridiculous commutes. They have all the issues you'd expect in a guy that's never been away from his mommy. Korean women are more likely to band together and get a small apartment where 3-4 of them can stay in the city. Guys can't do that because they are clueless in so many things like shopping, laundry, cooking, cleaning.
We put our foreign employees in apartments in core areas of Seoul close to work and subsidize their rent. So in essence we are putting them in a situation where there's tons of unattached girls nearby who are super annoyed already about the Korean guys with mommy issues and 2-3 hour commutes.

Maybe I can recapture my glory days by getting a summer internship at your company with an apartment stocked with lots of condoms

 

[BIGBOB62]

Maybe I can recapture my glory days by getting a summer internship at your company with an apartment stocked with lots of condoms

Well I do get lots of offers from the young girls on my office....

But it's to introduce me to their divorced moms and unnies.

 

[richardp2918]

Well I do get lots of offers from the young girls on my office....

But it's to introduce me to their divorced moms and unnies.

Pre-covid I was visiting Seoul to see my uncle and his daughter in university/my cousin, who has a ton of hot sexy friends who always post oiled up bikini and thongs shots of themselves on Instagram. My uncle started berating me for not being married and then turned to my cousin and started berating her for not introducing me to girls.

I got super excited before he started mentioning that she should keep an eye open for single professors of hers. I was almost about to correct him and say I'd prefer her friends, before I muzzled myself to avoid becoming the family degenerate and getting blocked from my cousin's instagram.

 

[이 회장님]

Pre-covid I was visiting Seoul to see my uncle and his daughter in university/my cousin, who has a ton of hot sexy friends who always post oiled up bikini and thongs shots of themselves on Instagram. My uncle started berating me for not being married and then turned to my cousin and started berating her for not introducing me to girls.

I got super excited before he started mentioning that she should keep an eye open for single professors of hers. I was almost about to correct him and say I'd prefer her friends, before I muzzled myself to avoid becoming the family degenerate and getting blocked from my cousin's instagram.

I told my family that I will not get married. And if any of them set up another arranged marriage dinner again then I will get very upset. lol

 

[이 회장님]

Totally. What I see is that Korean men stay at home until they marry, sometimes into their 40s. They live outside Seoul and have ridiculous commutes. They have all the issues you'd expect in a guy that's never been away from his mommy. Korean women are more likely to band together and get a small apartment where 3-4 of them can stay in the city. Guys can't do that because they are clueless in so many things like shopping, laundry, cooking, cleaning.
We put our foreign employees in apartments in core areas of Seoul close to work and subsidize their rent. So in essence we are putting them in a situation where there's tons of unattached girls nearby who are super annoyed already about the Korean guys with mommy issues and 2-3 hour commutes.

I blame the parents for raising such lazy bums. It’s very common for a Korean male in his 30s and 40s to still live with their parents and they expect their parents to hand over their home to him once they pass away.

Then again, thanks to these bums, it’s too easy to date in Korea. You tell them that you’re a business owner, live in Southern Seoul (강남구), and financially independent, you’re good to go. lol

 

[richardp2918]

I told my family that I will not get married. And if any of them set up another arranged marriage dinner again then I will get very upset. lol

what if it was a stunningly beautiful 21yo nubile cool funny girl who also got forced into a setup and you two spent the date bonding over family pressure to get married, shared a few drinks while opening up with each other and snuggling up closer and closer to each other before her lips brushed closely against yours, her warm breasts pressing against your arms.

You lock eyes with her as you gently guide her delicate hands to your throbbing cock, at which point you quickly get the check and take her back to your hotel where you rip her clothes straight off and she stands there aroused and ashamed at the same time, as her tits jiggle back and forth in the aftermath of her sudden disrobing. Then you throw her on the bed, fling her panties off and take a nice triumphant sniff before slinging it against the wall, grab her ankles and spread her legs open with her high heels still dangling on her feet, as you plunder her like a viking.

then you wak up the next morning wondering how you're going to explain this to your uncle and cousin...oh, never mind, that was my fantasy. sorry.

 

[richardp2918]

I wonder if this is actually happening? It would partially explain the lowest birthrate in the world

 

[mitchxy1]

Wow, I'm learning a lot about Korean men. I'm sure the mainland Chinese are similar. I guess I understand why the women look for greener pastures. But if it's the mother's fault for raising such a sheltered son, then I hope the next generation learns from this and raises better all around kids, though they might now me mixed race!

 

[이 회장님]

I wonder if this is actually happening? It would partially explain the lowest birthrate in the world

If a Korean female thinks like this then they can pack their bags, leave their parents’ home and become a strong and independent young adult by figuring things out on their own. I bet most of them will return home to their parents within six months.

 

[mitchxy1]

I love how when people protest conditions, be it silent or outward protests, they don't usually have the answer. They just say that things need to change. Well, if that was so easy, you would have the answer, and be accountable for it!
Writing this as I'm reading about the growing number of protests at University campuses about the Israeli conflict. But let's NOT get into that!

 

[이 회장님]

Wow, I'm learning a lot about Korean men. I'm sure the mainland Chinese are similar. I guess I understand why the women look for greener pastures. But if it's the mother's fault for raising such a sheltered son, then I hope the next generation learns from this and raises better all around kids, though they might now me mixed race!

I believe in Korea, one out of ten married couples are with a non-Korean. Most of the non-Koreans are Whites, Chinese and Japanese.

I blame both of my sisters and their husbands for raising very weak kids. I call their kids, “As soft as Tofu.” lol

 

[richardp2918]

I believe in Korea, one out of ten married couples are with a non-Korean. Most of the non-Koreans are Whites, Chinese and Japanese.

I blame both of my sisters and their husbands for raising very weak kids. I call their kids, “As soft as Tofu.” lol

Wow...I had never heard that statistic of 10% non-Korean marriages. I've heard about the country and farmer guys marrying Vietnamese mail order brides because there's almost no women in the countryside.

Is there a breakdown between whether Korean women or men marry more foreigners?

 

[VJLUTZ]

I wonder if this is actually happening? It would partially explain the lowest birthrate in the world

When you think about it, this is not so different from what is happening in the US and the rest of the developed world. Thanks to Feminism, Women have become ever more hostile to men and motherhood. Men & families are faltering and the birthrate is dropping like a stone. I think Africa is the only continent where the fertility rate is over 3 anymore. Women are thriving professionally now, but eventually the low birthrates will put society in dire straits.

This has been a topic on other threads too.

 

[richardp2918]

When you think about it, this is not so different from what is happening in the US and the rest of the developed world. Thanks to Feminism, Women have become ever more hostile to men and motherhood. Men & families are faltering and the birthrate is dropping like a stone. I think Africa is the only continent where the fertility rate is over 3 anymore. Women are thriving professionally now, but eventually the low birthrates will put society in dire straits.

This has been a topic on other threads too.

I guess I haven't spent as much time in Korea post covid as I used to, so it's still surprising to me. I saw signs of it happening even a decade ago, but it was far from a burgeoning trend that was discussed in the mainstream. I'll have to pay more attention next time I'm there.

I wonder if this means Koreans are also embracing the polyamory enm movement that's thriving in NYC. that would be WILD if I could get hooked into that scene.

 

[mitchxy1]

The traditional family as we understood it while growing up is eroding. Much of it is due to natural evolution, and it's not always a good thing. The more freedom there is, the more instability there is. Obviously, I'm not saying a dictatorship where everything is controlled is a good thing. But change is not always good in the short term, where there still needs to be a period of time for adjustment.
Feminism, sexual identity issues, wealth and liberal attitudes all contribute to this change and we are witnessing the devaluation of the family unit, marriage and thus instability. Most people would call this "progress".

 

[mitchxy1]

ENM? Sounds really interesting considering I've been with the same woman for over 35 years
I'm in NYC. How do I get in on this?
And then, how do I get my wife to not stab me upon mention of this?

 

[richardp2918]

ENM? Sounds really interesting considering I've been with the same woman for over 35 years
I'm in NYC. How do I get in on this?
And then, how do I get my wife to not stab me upon mention of this?

There's a bunch of events on Eventbrite for polyamory and enm. I only learned about it because so many girls I've met...at bars picking up, on dating apps, girlfriends of friends, etc are into it, so it's been pretty mind blowing to learn about it. It's EVERYWHERE in NY these days.

There's a dating app called Feeld where a lot of ppl are openly about it. They also throw parties now and then that you can find out about if you follow their instagram or keep checking on Eventbrite.

 

[이 회장님]

Wow...I had never heard that statistic of 10% non-Korean marriages. I've heard about the country and farmer guys marrying Vietnamese mail order brides because there's almost no women in the countryside.

Is there a breakdown between whether Korean women or men marry more foreigners?

I’m sure there’s a breakdown somewhere online. I read it was around 10%.