There is always some amount of "cat and mouse" the first time you visit any establishment especially one that is trying to maintain an air of legitimacy as this one is. Actually, it can be part of the fun. As mentioned, there wasn't any issue during the second session. If you're looking for more then yeh, you can go get your balls washed in a bucket anywhere in CT for a similar donation. But if you want a pretty legit massage with a satisfying conclusion in a quiet and what seemed to be relatively clean atmosphere, 158 checks those boxes.