I think different men value different things, and make their decisions based upon whatever their personal value system is. I don't generally look for exotic menu items, I do value skill at the services I am interested in. I value personality when I am with them, and though secondary, I do value looks. I know that does not match everyone else's list (to say nothing of the fact that different men have different definitions of good looks or good skills, etc.) No argument with them, that is their right to have different value systems. For me she is worth more than the average. Most the ladies I see regularly are not necessarily at the top of other men's lists, but they keep me happy and I tip them accordingly.