Late 30s is a-ok with me, no need to travel into the city and pay premium prices. been there, done that. I've found that older girls know how to please better, anyway. girls in their 20s just think they can get by on their looks and their attitude suffers.
I'm not trying to be naive, I know the girls in NJ are def older than they let on, but don't agree that they are all 40s plus. Lots of them sure, but if they "look" in their 30s then fuck it, that's fine with me.