Yes, SH, chemistry is always a big factor, and likely played a factor on this visit. I should have taken the lead for sure, but I went to see her for BDSM mostly, and her waterfall skills after. I would think in a BDSM session, she would take the lead, which initially she did, but after I released, it was like we both shut down? Although, we had a great DATY session after, which I did take the lead.