I can only speak for myself but I try to be gentle with these ladies, as for Arie she is a gorgeous woman who is fully aware of her selling point but her restrictions totally negate any reason for seeing her. If I wanted to marvel at treasures and not be allowed to touch I'd go to a museum, the difference is at a museum it goes without saying "look but don't touch", don't think the same rules should apply at an amp. I'll take your word for it, perhaps she does get better with repeats but given her conduct on the first visit, I think you can see why it would turn many off from bothering to try again.