Hey over 60.... Here is my game plan I take a 2.5 Cialis earlier in the day 4-5 hours before... ( see you doctor, first please). No drinking before, after, now never... is ruins the experience. I find the slight increase in blood flow, helps with the condom... less blood flow the condom can be a real buzz kill. I also think a little oil on your lightening rod before the condom helps increase the feeling, regardless of age. The C also helps come back for that 2nd pop a bit as there is that increase in blood flow. 2nd pop for us geezers is almost always combo HJ/ BBBJ to CIM.... nice to hear I am not the only old fart on the hobby circuit.