PICTURES...
Look getting professional pictures taken can be very expensive. Hair styles and body weights can change. Professional pics also include professional makeup. A professional photographer is only going to pic the very best pics from a photo shoot that make the lady look her very best. Then add in Photoshop on top of it. You don't make big money being a professional photographer by delivering no so good pics to your clients.
This isn't just an EPM thing. All Indy ladies that post pics more or less face this issue. If you expect the lady to look exactly just like her pics well you're setting yourself up for a let down. Now of course if she looks nothing like her pics that is another thing. Also it seems with Covid a lot of friends have seemed to have gained weight or lost weight. Also some people just don't take great pics and other do.
I know of a lady that was so smoking hot when you saw her in real life but just didn't take good pics, it just didn't carry over, very strange. I also know of the opposite of an incredibly photogenic lady who didn't look that good in real life. She could hit a perfect smile for the camera and it was amazing but you would walk past her on the street and not look twice at her also very strange.