There's a kernel of truth in everyone's comments. The best sex workers have Meryl Streep level acting skills to make you believe they've made an emotional connection with you. It's make pretend. Any monger's best experience can be tied back to how well he bought into her performance. It can be a win-win. She accomplishes a good reputation and more money through tips and longevity, the monger floats out of the room on cloud 9 with a great story to tell, on websites like this primarily.
Harsh reality is the second the monger is gone she is thinking only of removing any trace of him: used rubber, sweat smears on her, wet sheets/towels, etc. She is not wondering what you are doing later, or what your favorite foods are. She is planning on how she is going to convince the next guy how amazing it is to have him pound her pussy while his taco breath permeates her air space.
The joy, excitement of visiting these ladies is intense at times, and fleeting. 100% true that treating her in a friendly, dignified way goes a long way to increase your overall experience. She will relax a little, and show it in her performance, almost every time. Some mongers will claim they've taken AMP girls out on real dates. I'm sure that's true and a whole different conversation.
Again - kernels of truth on all sides - be kind all the time, immerse yourself in the fantasy for an hour, wake up at the end and resume normal life.