It goes to prove, YMMV. I have been with women who some guys post they had a bad time and would not recommend. Hey sometimes I even go when I read that. And guess what, I have a great time.
The opposite is also true. I have been with some who others say gives a great massage, did every position in the book , etc. Then go get a shit ass rub down, not allowed to touch tits, and can't bang worth a damm.
We men are all different looking, some old, some young, we dress different and behave differently. So as always YMMV.