I don't get how providers like this are able to stay in the game....
It is because the Mamasan don't care who they pick 90% of the time. She probably has a reputation already...
That is one thing after nearly 10 years of this hobby I still can't understand is:
1) Why don't you quit the trade if you don't like dealing with old/fat/ugly guys? (No offense to any board members implying they are any of the above) But the reality is that in this hobby there will be a greater percentage of either old/fat/ugly or some combination of those 3. Why would a young handsome rich guy go to dumpy Spa? They have no common sense and expect these guys to walk in the door and make selling their booty a pleasurable experience
2) Even when young handsome mongers walk in they are still unwilling to compromise typically on money. You would think they would be treated much nicer than OP, but the reality is we are all just walking benjamins to them, nothing more....
So OP - Don't feel bad, I had a bit of a Dad bod going on up until earlier this year, I lost 15lbs, mostly body fat in the gut area, went down from 20% to 15%. It doesn't matter. Treatment is the same more or less. I am always asked my age and if I'm married etc. Although this is small talk, depending on when they ask indicates whether they are interested or not. Usually the question is when I first get in the door which indicates they think I am mid 20's at best. Some of these Women are legitimately interested in me but can't get past their own stupidity and the fast money and "the routine"....
The legit provider I did BBFS with (results came back negative
) still sets the timer clock....(Please don't ask who because she will not do it for anyone else)
In some ways this is a good thing. You don't want them texting you when your GF is there or becoming too friendly. On the other hand it's not good when you want a temporary respite and something not mechanical. Some are able to get into it for the moment, but once you pop the illusion is finished and it's back to reality....
Your belly isn't the problem - That provider you encountered is a lost Jezebel tortured spirit and is miserable with her life. She is caught in a Samsara loop of wanting quick money but not to provide good service to get more so she's frustrated with her situation and wishes some Knight in shining armor that looks like a K-Pop model would come down and save her old ass. Somewhere deep inside she knows that's impossible and refuses to come to terms with reality and begrudgingly wakes up every morning with disdain for herself, life and Men she finds unattractive (90% of Women only find 10% of Men attractive)
It's not you...It's her...The next guy she serviced afterwards 99% guaranteed got the same treatment. He was slim, it didn't matter. In her deluded mind - she thinks she deserves better!
