It’s been done before. The successful relationships are the ones where the dude helps to set her up with her own business. The ones that leave the shop to move in with a dude and get an allowance, not so much. I’m friends with more than one former “star”, who are married and have a kid together. One ten years together, another nine. The only kind of girl worth bringing home is one who wants a hand up, and not a hand out. They’ll want to keep working in some capacity, so you have to be able to trust her, and be ok with the idea that she will be yanking chains. Not a deal breaker for some, with conditions of course, like she keeps her clothes on etc. You don’t have to be rich, just successful, financially secure, and have game. If you can show her a better life, even with less $, a smart girl will consider it, especially if she likes you. Family is everything to the Chinese. If you can demonstrate how she will be able to go and visit her family regularly, by getting her legal permanent residency, that has value beyond $. The right girl can become a genuine and loved member of your own family. I’ve seen it happen. . The ones that are into Luis Vitton handbags and casinos won’t see it that way, but you don’t want one of those girls anyway.