Either you accept it for the risk that it obviously represent and you manage it responsibly or you just don’t do it. What I mean by “manage” it is you don’t expose anybody in your life outside of this hobby to whatever risks you might be taking by testing for everything first. I abstained a few times when I had a civilian SB and it wasn’t easy, either. One girl I’d been with before who never even mentioned extra money for it sort of took it upon herself to test me, and, of course, she won and I had to make up an excuse about why I couldn’t see my SB for a few weeks until I got tested all over again. (Yes, I always tipped her $100 afterwards, but it was never discussed at all from day one.)
If it’s a rare thing for you to do, then enjoy yourself and just get tested afterwards; and if it’s something you do regularly, then you do exactly what I figure most of the girl do if they do this kind of work and aren’t idiots, which is get tested periodically or after a string of encounters. Some of our favorite girls just get tested as soon as they’re done with their working tours. And what I mean by “don’t do it” is not just actual BBFS, but also anything like P2P, because I’m always amazed when I read guys say that they enjoy P2P but wouldn’t cross that line because of the risks. If you’re doing P2P, you might as well go for it, because you’ve already taken that risk. If you’re that worried about it and (especially) if your fear has anything to do with your wife or GF, you need to test every time you P2P, too. That’s probably the case with BBBJs, too.
Anything you can get from BBFS you can also get from P2P. I understand that even girls who don’t usually do it break their own rules occasionally, but it’s really not too hard to figure out which girls really make no exceptions for anybody, like our beloved Rosie. We were just talking about that today and she made a reference to how much she (still) enjoys sex when she likes the guys and they’re nice to her, and I told her that I already posted about how jealous I am of all the guys whose reviews detail her fucking their brains out who can actually feel anything through condoms, because I can’t. She’s easily still one of my all time favorites even though I can hardly even fuck her; but for you guys who are much more afraid of STDs, she’s perfect, and I know from talking to and getting to know other girls, that she’s definitely not the only one who really means it when she says she “never” does it. She said that almost everybody in NYC was nice to her, and that pretty much every bad experience (and every bad review) that she had here had to do only one thing: guys not wanting to take no for an answer when she simply refused BBFS.
) but people like Rosie slightly intimidate me. However time to get over that shit and just get on with it. I'm careful but DATY is something I am willing to risk, its slightly sad that I havent had sexual relations with Mrs for a while, her hormones have switched off whatever was on before. Therefore risk of passing on is limited. Great post.
