Don't hold your breath. It is a tough decision to make. Sometimes too much for one , but other times not enough for two.
As far as scheduling, we all know the somewhat more mature crowd tend to go here. Not all of them have the luxury of being able to call for obvious reasons. Sure it sucks to have your session interrupted. I suggested long ago to our fellow members to call and schedule just as DWind suggest. But not all the guys that go here are members here.
I tend to try and not let it bother me, but I also like to get into that Zen mood and not be BUZZED or RANGED out of it.